I successfully ruined my life today, my parents disowned me cuz they didn’t approve of me having a boyfriend at 17. My friends hate me cuz I always make up excuses to not hang out with them, not that I wanna ignore them it’s just hard to get permission every single time when you have strict parents and they don’t get that, the only guy who loved me hates me now cuz I single-handedly ruined our relationship. My grades dropped from 3.8 to 0.2. And the only way I can escape is through sleeping. I have no clue how to fix everything and the worst part is I don’t feel like fixing it.
Maybe I should just end it all, but again I’m too lazy for it. I know I need help just don’t know whom to ask.
jeez thts so messed up. parents can be so toxic at times istg.
i am from have an indian family , so i TOTALLY relate. i am close to my mom but have issues with my dad. back in 9th grade when i was dating my ex , i thought of saying my mom about him. she acted very rudely to it. which back the hurt me a lot.
now its gonna be a year. i am dating the guy whom i have been besties for 3 years. i intentionally didnot tell my mom about him , cuz i sorta know how she’s gonna react. be like “you wont be able to study” and all tht shit. but then me and my boyfriend are in ldr. so we are very focused on studies cuz we want a good future for ourselves.
you know what. no one has the right to tell you how YOU should feel or do. its YOU. dont let other yk suppress your own desires. its okay to feel low. and wanting to sleep. i used to sleep a lot in 9th cuz i had serious anxiety issues. i thought sleep as a method of escaping , yk. tho it didnt work at all but still i somehow felt good cuz ofc ESCAPING!!
i say stand up for yourself. people will come and go. but YOU have YOU in the end. dont let others suppress you , be it your parents.
its YOU who has to make a better future for yourself. not for idk , but the statements like “what will society think”
just trying to say. its okay. things take time. but they sure get better. <3
Thank you so much, its relieving to have support.
always here <3