Well, I realize I havent been myself lately,,,its been kind of tense here at Caos Manor…Tonjia had the same goofy guy from Cali down here again…not cause she wanted him..mind you…but because she has truely lost her flippin\' mind…she is on a man hunt, and she just wont stop until she gets what she wants…which, honestly your guess is as good as mine…for true…anyway its been 2 1/2 weeks of stressful watching for me…there is something definately wrong with that man…Let me just say, I never took my eyes off my grandkids for a dang minute…specially the boys…Gracie is way too developed…she looks like a woman…and seeing that that man didnt seem to want to be with Tonjia…Well you get my drift…I think little boys is his cup of tea…and really he dont know how close he was to getting his package hacked off…by grandma….He got here flat broke,,,and so he was supported by us the whole time…and Tonjia really didnt know how to get rid of him…I did,,,theres a lot of country out here…Im pretty damn sure I could find a place to dump him, no one would find him til\' hunting season…if then…So, I asked him when he was leaving,,,he got the idea…and now he is gone,,,and I told her she can go visit men as much as she wants to,,,but dont ever bring one into this house again…Hell No!!!!! So he left Friday,,,and Friday I got my check…you know what that means…we are RICH for about a day and a half…lol…so when she was back from the airport..me and the kids went shopping…and you know I was just gonna get the bare essentials but that just dont always work out…So, we got all the dogs food and cats food,,,household supplies…then Ty needed boxers and shorts…Layne need socks and boxers and shorts…Gracie needed underware, bras, nite gown,,,you know the drill…by the time I was done there was definately a hole in my pocket book…lol I bought me some cigs…lol…Saturday,,,me and Layne had planned a day with his dad…so me Gracie and Layne left early in the morning for Talladega…We got Jason then went to walmart to get picnic supplies…went back by the house picked up the dog…and set out for the park…when we got there we had it all to ourselves…it was so awesome!!! LMAO!!!Until we unloaded the truck and the kids said HEY!! Granma someone took all the swings…I said what?? before I could look there…Layne says granma someone took the slide too…and the other swings…and the merry go round…it was the craziest shit I ever saw…that Park has been there forever…we watch fireworks there every 4th of July…but someone stole the freakin\' park…well….I knew where another little park was…so we went there…and….it was all LOCKED UP!!! who locks up the park????…well, you know…I was not going to let that ruin our day…I said…Hop the damn fence kids…so we all hopped the fence and the dog too…and I said you know…this is one of those Jeff Foxworthy jokes…You know youre a redneck…when you ignore the chains on the gates and hop the fence to have a picnic…LMAO!!!i didnt care…they didnt have any no trespassin\' signs up…so what are they gonna do to us???LOL…so we commence to havin\' a picnic and a good time…and a lady pulls up with her little boy…I said oh hell, were gonna have to help them over the fence…LOL….but know,,,they had put a chain on all 3 gates to the park….and added a new smaller gate…that I never even saw….we just looked at each other and bust out laughin\'…but it was really kind of fun to hop the fence…lol…We had a good time…then Jason BBQ\'d for us,,,Layne spent the night, and me and Gracie went back home…course we had to get a milkshake on the way home…Sunday gave my share of the bill money to Tonjia,,,then me and Gracie went to by groceries…and all the prices were jacked up so high…but I got plenty for all…and some marbles for the boys and thier friend Matt…Gracie got somethin\' at the dollar tree…get home Jason calls…Layne wants to stay another night…so this morning I go to get him…Ty and Matt rode with me…we get there and Jasons boss had a fit and fired him…god I hate that man…and his brother too…I went and got flea stuff for the dogs and yard and house…again…got myself some marbles…cause they want grandma to play marbles with them…lol they dont know how good I am at marbles….lol …anyway,,,picked up a bunch of frozen 1$ dinners for Jason…went to get the kids… and lets just say he\'d had another fight with the boss and had drank a couple of beers…needless to say all this drama sucked…and I won\'t go into it…but I left Jason standing there bitching about his boss ,,,and yelling at me that I dont love him…You know everytime I think things will get better…someone throws a monkey wrench in the whole mess…but all and all it was a great weekend for us…we had a good time until the drunk part…and of course now Im broke…but I got mostly everything covered…Tonjia however…well, somehow she doesnt see her children need clothes and food…all she does is talk to men on line and play oblivion…on the x box…anyway…I think I got things covered for awhile…maybe she\'ll snap out her haze and smell the coffee…before its all gone…I told ya\'ll I live in caos…lol…If I didnt have this pc to talk to anyone else…it would just be me and the kids…in the eye of a hurricane….hope ya\'ll had a fun weekend…I did…lol with a few speed bumps…but i guess thats life…Love & Light to you all…Shadow