I have just one question for everyone-how can someone from the human race be soooo stupid?!!!!!!! My god, talk about dense! I kicked this fool out of my house 3 months ago because he is completely whacked out of his head and decided to use me as a punching bag, said the most horrific things you could ever say to a person(much less the "love of your life"), and treated my kids like dirt; yet he has the nerve to send me an email saying some outlandish shit a few hours ago. Of course it has to be when I am out of wine! It said something along the lines of "even though you still blame me for everything that went wrong, and I did more for you and your kids then their own fathers have, I hope you have a good year and hope the best for you." Are you flipping joking?!!! I told him that I don't want your double edged good wishes. So what if you did things for us? Does that give you the right to treat us in the manner you did? Does that excuse when you looked me dead in the face and told me that you wished i would just drop dead in front of you so you would be free? That some whore you had in Singapore you have more respect for instead of me? That I am an asshole for forgiving my partner for infecting me? That you hope they never find a cure so I will die soon? but of course it does excuse everything because you were drunk when you said it? Sorry dude, doesn't fly with me! You already had these thoughts and words in your mind, all the booze did was give you the courage to say them out loud. What a joke! If I wasn't so angry, I would be laughing my ass off about this one. Hopefully when I calm down I will call my best friend and tell her about this one so she can have a good laugh on her way to work in the morning! For his sake I hope he stays in Afghanistan for a really long time!!!!!!!
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If a man treats you and your kids with disrespect and beats you as well……I wouldn't waste my energy in communicating with him nor give him the time of day. Be done with that loser, delete his messages (unread) and move on with your life. Be blessed!
I thought it was over with him,, just block his email address period and don't let him get under your skin no more, NO CONTACT…
I bet the email that he send you he was under the influence.. and don't be an enabler…
thanks for all the good words and you guys are right. no more contact for me-most of the time i can ignore them and i actually hadn't heard from him in a few weeks so I thought i was safe. guess i was wrong! oh well, don't need this crap anymore and thanks again guys, really appreciate it.
Good job.
At this pont if you gave him another chance you would be vollunteering for his crap.
Good riddance to bad rubbish! Moving on swiftly.. 2012 will rock for you.
Unfortunately, it is all too common for the abused to return to their abuser. I hope you are not one of them and can find the strength and the wherewithal to move on. There are so many guys out there that would treat you and your children with the respect you deserve.