I broke up with my boyfriend in june and was in a bad space.so when i met this guy in oct who showed interest i hadunprotected sex,Facts that i know is i was tested postv end of nov, my risky behaviour was in october. So according to medical evidence because i got sick at the beginning of nov with acute infection it was right to assume that i contracted this disease in october. They say it takes 2-6weeks for you to get acute infection. But there is always a chance of delayed seroconversion. so i called my ex, wasnt easy and told him and he says he got tested in july and he was negtv but suggested we go get tested on monday just to be sure. See i know its not him, because the last guy i was with in oct rumour has it he is married which i didnt know. That he and hes wife have been on arvs 4 years, when i confronted him.He ignored me and changed all his contact details. But just to be sure i told my ex.i kinda thought it was the right thing to do, altho its exposing my status to a lot more people,its the right thing 2 do, Is it?with all the stigma around is telling more people ur status the right thing?or should one just never find out who truly infected them because of pride? After mon if it turns out to be guy nu2, im going to explore legal options as he intentionally infected me according to the rumour in the city.but can one open a case without hardcore evidence?maybe i should just let it be,but i remeber when i first found out and i told him, i needed a mere 45us to get my viral load checked coz my medical was short and i was unemployed and he didnt both to assist me, when he is a millionare and also just opened a new upmarket club .that really didnt sit well with me.but i have now accepted in this world there are heartless people and that just a fact of life.