Dear “      “

Thank you for your honesty.   Now, I see that revealed the truth about your character and I deserved and still deserve better than any man who could treat me the way you did.

I wonder what you gained from how you treated me? Did seeing me cry give you feelings of power? Did knowing that you broke the trust of someone who would of taken really  care of you as a  possible old and sick man someday give you happiness?

Even if you have changed for the better and are wiser now than you were then, the way you treated me was horrible.   We can’t change the past

It is something you have to live with part of your past and  is reflecting poorly on your character.

I never did or said anything mean or unkind to you.   I win because I don’t have any regrets because I was brave and vulnerable and you showed yourself to be a rude, selfish, cold manipulative, judgment, snob, superficial, heartless monster.

Remember years ago when you reached out to me saying you wanted to meet my children and for me to meet yours and let us keep it a secret for our spouses?

Also,  you said that you regret letting me go and marrying her? Oh then the words saying, “I am sorry how I handled everything.”

Then, you said I was everything you could of wanted in a woman.

The final cherry on top top was the fact that you think one of your children isn’t your child that you are raising

I said no to you.  Then, you begged and pleaded.  It was SO important to you to see me and for our children that I meet.  Also, you really wanted to meet my children.    I said no again.

Why would I lie to my loving and devoted husband for a step mom “interview” with a monster and a poor excuse for a man?

Someday, I will feel fully indifferent towards you   It just isn’t today

You not kind sir, are in my rear view mirror and you were a mere speed bump to get me where  I am today.

Thumbs down to you unkind one!

Lacey