something that i feel is very important for bisexual people to know, especially people who are unsure in their sexuality at the moment, is that like many things it is a spectrum. i knew from a young age that i liked girls, one of my elementary school crushes was a girl, but i didn’t understand how that could happen because i also knew i liked boys. at first, the issue did not get better with time. i experienced my first boyfriend and i thought ‘this must be it. i’m straight, maybe i was just confused before.’ and for a while i only thought that way. however, every once and a while i would see a girl and think, DAMN. i brushed this aside repeatedly as Women Supporting Women, but i knew it was deeper than that. while i am attracted to males in a way that seems to be more consistant, i am positive that i love my current girlfriend. so whoever you are, however you identify, and whatever your age, please know that bisexuality is not a clean split. it is not always 50/50. some girls lean more towards girls, some more towards boys. some boys lean more towards girls, some more towards boys. there is no hurry to figure out who you are. take your time, explore yourself and your feelings. nothing that you feel in the next few years is wrong. if you end up feeling as though you are only attracted to one gender, great! it’s okay, you don’t have to keep identifying as something you aren’t. sexuality is not something you can chose, so don’t try to! let yourself discover yourself, never let an outside source put pressure on you to come out, or stay in. never let an outside source put pressure on you to identify as straight or lesbian/gay/anything. this is your thing. you get to be you. you are more than a label.
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