I HAVEN'T BEEN ON IN A REALLY LONG TIME BECAUSE MY TIME HAS BEEN CONSUMNED WITH MY DAD HE WAS REALLY SICK AND WE COULDNT FIGURE OUT WHY WE THOUGHT IT WAS THE COPD OR MAYBE THE DIABETES HE WAS BARELY ON OXYGEN FOR A YEAR WE TOOK HIM TO THE HOSPITAL 2 TIMES AND THEY NEVER SAID NOTHING THEY RUN TONS OF TEST AND STILL SAID NOTHING MY DAD GOT WHERE HE COULDNT EAT SLEEP NOTHING SO WHEN THE DR SAID THERE REALLY WASNT NOTHING WRONG WITH HIM WE ASSUMED THAT HE WAS OK HE WAS JUST BEING A WHINNY PERSON THEN ON AUGUST 8TH AT 8:00 HE SAID HE NEEDED TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL HE COULDNT TAKE THE PAIN ANYMORE AND ASKED ALL DAY LONG COULD ME AND MY TWO BROTHERS AND MY SISTER COME AND SIT WITH HIM HE NEEDED US BUT ONCE AGAIN MY FAMILY NEVER THINKS ANYTHING ABOUT THAT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO DO U THINK THEY DID WELL NO THEY DIDNT, SO WE GET MY DAD TO THE HOSPITAL AND THEY COULDNT GET HIS BLOOD PRESSURE AT ALL SO THEY RUSHED HIM TO THE BACK OF THE ER AND DIDNT LET US BACK THERE ME MY MOM AND HUSBAND WERE TERRIFIED WE DIDNT KNOW WHAT WAS HAPPENING SO THEY LET MY MOM GO TO THE BACK AND SHE COMES OUT THERE TO ME WHICH SEEMS LIKE FOREVER AND TAKES ME OUTSIDE AND SHE TELLS ME THAT HE HAS PANCREATIC CANCER AND ITS TERMINAL HE WOULDNT HAVE MORE THAN A COUPLE OF HOURS TO MAKE IT IF THAT SO ALL THAT TIME THEY COULD HAVE PREPARED US OF WHAT WAS TO COME AND THEY DIDNT DO IT MY DAD PASSED AWAY ON AUG 9TH AT 3;47AM. LOVE EVERYONE THAT IS AROUND YOU AND HOLD THEM CLOSE BECAUSE ONE DAY WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT THEY WILL BE GONE BE BLESSED. LIVE, LAUGH, AND LOVE..

6 Comments
  1. dragisha 8 years ago

    I've had three deaths and one heavy stroke in the family this year. First my mother, aunt and her son. And now uncle who had a stroke! Horrifying years.

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  2. bratt1166 8 years ago

     So sorry for your loss!!

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  3. bluesky 8 years ago

    I am sorry for your loss, I pray that God uphold you during this time of need and strenghten you…Take care /hugs.

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  4. hopeful1 8 years ago

     i"m sorry for your loss………..please disregard the statement that you should 'sue the hospital', that is an ill-concieved statement and not what you should be focused on………may your family find peace in this time of grief-

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  5. cmehappy 8 years ago

    THANKS EVERYONE BEEN HOLDING MY MOM UP THEY WOULDVE BEEN MARRIED 40YRS OCT 25

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  6. cmehappy 8 years ago

    TY everyone today is a hard day it's hard watching my momma cry I have to wait till I'm alone to breakdown I have to be strong for her there was alot of regrets, but I'm glad me and dad had a good relationship these last 6yrs we apologized to each other and moved on and I got to have a wonderful relationship before he passed.

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