I recently got engaged at the end of june. My fiance is very spontaneous. I don't like surprises because they give me anxiety. I don't know if anyone else is like that, like you have to know what's going on and things need to be planned. I ended up in the er the morning of the 4th of july. I had the worst panic attack of my life! I was confused and I was screaming and yelling. I called him the wrong name and I didn't know who he was or where I was. The doctor said that I had a conversion reaction. I am scared that I am going to have one again. He said that I needed to be on medication. I started taking paxil about a month ago and it seems to be working. Anyways, my fiance was being spontaneous again and decides we should go visit his family in south carolina on sunday. I yelled at him and gave him my ring. I feel like I can't live with someone who wants to up and leave all the time. He always wants to move and I'm not good with change. I just don't understand him because he has panic attacks, too. I took my ring back after I got my point across. I feel that he is unstable. He is bipolar but he refuses to get back on meds. I keep telling him to go to the doctor. Any advice?

                                                 Thank you for listening,

                                                Jamie