I have been talking to a neggie for about a month. Texting back and forth and I told him right up front I have hiv and claimed it was no problem. He and I have been friends for about 5 years now online and just this past month getting closer. Texting and talking on myspace.  But I have noticed any time I bring up meeting him  (even in a joking manner) he avoids it.  So today I was thinking about my vacation with my son for the summer and made a remark about what town does he live close to (or work to I can\'t remember exactly how i put it) well I get no reply.  I texted later in the day again no reply. I texted again later in the day again no reply. So finally I am thinking wtf and I msg him on myspace and I saw he read it and again no reply.  Why do people say they are ok with hiv when they really aren\'t?  Why play games with peoples head?  I mean I have told him many times his friendship is more important than anything and if he was not cool with it just to say so.  He claimed it didn\'t bother him but if not why ignore someone continously when they bring up the matter of meeting in person?  I mean it is ONLY friendship so what is the harm in meeting in person?  Is he afraid to catch it if I cough on him? I mean wtf?  Anyway to say the least I will not be going out his way for vacation.  No sense in making plans to do so for him to flake later on closer to the date that I arrive.