I saw this on Pinterest yesterday, and I got me thinking. I can see myself on both sides, because I love feeling like I’m important so I tend to get involved in a lot of drama so I can help and I hate it when I find out I did something wrong, I hate hurting people.

on the other side, what I would give to have someone who just knows everything who I can trust and just be with a smile feel completely safe. I have a boyfriend but he tends to make serious things a joke and jokes, serious! (He listens when he knows it’s REALLY serious but sometimes I need his arm around me but he just thinks I’m being cute, not actually needing to feel comforted). It’s hard to find someone who can give me everything but it’s nearly impossible anyway.

I don’t know what to think (back to the main point). Am I more “needs to be loved” or “loves to be needed”?