My son unfortunately proposed to “her” last night.

Survival Plan

– say the “right” things to him when needed as if I was supportive of “this” choice he made

-be the best mom to him in actions while politely tolerating his choice

-the rule is for myself to deal with this is that if I don’t have anything positive or supportive regarding his choice / say nothing / walk away / look and stay busy

– avoid her without appearing to be doing so

-cling to the hope that he will see her for who she is eventually

He could of done so much better than her!

I can’t say this out loud in everyday life but I can type it here! 😀 I may have to learn to act fake (cringe) regarding this situation but I can stay genuine, authentic and sincere on the website!