My wife and i just had a 6# 12 oz baby boy . He is free of the virus so far but he is not safe from its affect. The day after he was born a worker showed up in the room and informed my wife (that was recovering from the C-section) that based on events that took place 11 years ago and the fact that they deamed this a high risk preg. (because we arepos)that they would be taking the baby from her . The events 11 years ago were that i was acused of a crime against a child that i was not found guilty of in criminal court and the charges were dropped . Here is the odd part with out my knowlege i was found to be at fault in family court and releived of my perental rights . 11 years later my child is being taken and we are be threatened to be publicly outed if we dont comply . They are telling her that the only thing they will concider compliance is for her to tell them that im a danger to the baby and turn on me in court or they will take the baby from her . she now is laying in a hospital bed fighting a blood clot and a infection unable to fight for the baby and they are taking me down one peice at a time .In 1993 i gave up meth and my way of life and turned a corner in my path to try to do better and have had not run in with police and have had no relapes to meth or any other drugs and in the 11 years since the faulse charges were dropped i have been the best person i could with no police involvement and no drug use living a clean and gentale life quietly . My question i now ask is if this is what you get when you get clean and try to be a good person why do it to start with ? Second do good people still wonder among the corrupt ? If they do why dont they stop these acts of cruelty from happening or atleast try ?
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Im still here fighting im just not sure what kinda life we will have here after all of this or if i will ever beleive that getting clean and doing right is the proper thing to do . But i keep my hope for the sake of my new son and the promise i made to my wife to protect her (She is everything to me and my best freind to boot ) ill never stop fighting for them
Stay strong, play it smart, and keep yourself clean…. Most definitly keep on fighting for your family!! Good luck..
I want to thank everyone for thier input . Im still fighting and will continue to till my last breath . I did try to comply with the worker to start and they want me to admit i did somthing to my son 11 years ago and im not going to admitt to somthing i didnt do so ………… Im really not sure what they want from me but OUTING me in public is not the way they are going to get me to comply . They now say that if i dont sign the release for them to get my med records that they will concider that noncompliance and that baby can be removed from his mother . I dont understand what my med records for my HIV doc have to do with my ablility to care for my son ? Im going to contact the places everyone sugested but at this point i cant comply with the worker without putting my future in jepardy. Im not sure how they can blackmail me like this i thuoght it was against the law to blackmail anyone ? Thanks again for the support and sorry it takes so long to reply i spend most of my time with my wife doing the things for her that she doesnt want strangers doing . Thanks again its nice to know that there are some good people left