We have these rights:
To be treated with respect
To say no
To change our minds
To offer no excuses or reasons for our behaviors or choices
To ask for what we want
To judge for ourselves
To have our needs be as important as other people’s needs
To ask that other people respond to our needs
To have feelings and express these feelings in ways that do not violate the dignity of others
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From the book When I Say No I Feel Guilty by Manuel J. Smith