When the ex wanted me to meet his children and bring mine to meet him….
I didn’t agree to it.
I wonder though what his intent was and what would of happened if I would of agreed.
It bothers me. I don’t know what my intent would of been if I would of said yes but I knew the risk involved and my instinct said to decline.
I regret not meeting his boys and him not meeting my children but my every gut feeling said to say no at the time!
It is so confusing because I am sentimental and have some fondness for the ex but don’t trust him as a potential life partner because of how poorly he treated me when we dated.
Thanks for listening!
If he treated you poorly, then it’s probably for the best that he was never around your children! It definitely sounds like you made the right decision.
Proanamia,
Thank you! I value the feedback!
Lacey