My best experience in my life…

was realizing that I am not responsible for others behavior and I stopped blaming myself for others choices.   It was a game changer in every way.  I learned that you don’t have to explain your decisions to others or try to get anyone to understand where you are coming from.  The minute you start explaining to them, you lose your power.   It flat out doesn’t matter if everyone understands you or even likes you.  It just won’t ever happen! The people who are meant to be in your life will understand you, support your dreams and ups and downs, and wouldn’t ever walk away from you.

My worst experience in life…..

was the day my “adopted” mother unexpectedly passed away.  I didn’t realize it then but she was my “home” and my “safe place.”  The world can throw a lot at you but having that one person who loves, treasures and is “that” person means more than one knows until it is gone.  Please tell the people you love that you love them.  I wish I would have told her how much I looked up to her, admired her emotional strength, kindness and compassion.  Please tell the people you love why they are so lovable.   They just may need to hear it and you could make their day!

What do I want to happen in my future….

I would appreciate the best health possible, more joy than tears, and to gain more understanding on the “why” some experiences had to happen to get where we are supposed to be.  We all need to be able to give up all control in some points of our lives because we can’t ever be 100 percent in control of all areas.  I don’t like accepting this and I am a work in progress!

I hope that you have a lovely day!