I just went through a mini ordeal.   I had a wierd mole on my back that I didn't think looked right.  Anyways, the prior HIV doctor I had tried to tell me it was nothing and made me feel like a hypochondriac.

So, I totally ignored his thoughts and went to my dermatologist.   I had to wait for the biopsy after they removed it.  A couple weeks later I got a call that it was in fact a melanoma.  

I'm light skinned and had been spending a lot of time out by my pool tanning.  I don't recommend this now.

Anyways, I had to go in a couple days ago for what I thought was another biopsy.   I was totally unprepared.   I had to have a 2nd large chunk taken out and now have about a 3 inch scar on my back which is healing.

I was told this is considered the standard treatment anytime you have a melanoma.   The first biopsy apparently indicates that it was on the outer skin layer and hadn't gone further so I should be fine.

I'll have to wait to hear that all is clear on this one, but it appears I went in in time and everything's kosher.

Apparently, I'll have to go every 3 months for check ups for the next couple years just to be on the safe side.

This wasn't HIV related, skin cancers run high on both sides of my family.  Luckily, no one has ever died from it.

Anyways, I'm told that chemical peels help prevent some skin cancers so I've had 2 done on my face already.  Plus, they keep ya young ; )   They don't help for melanoma however.

Just thought I'd share my story because if you suspect something doesn't look right or you have a family history of skin cancer be sure to get checked out by a good dermatologist and don't wait around.





  1. AustinWesley 15 years ago

    Thanks!   I hope I'm done with this as well.

    I got rid of that doctor last year.  He was an arrogant ass.  I have much better doctor now who actually listens to me.  

    I've noticed so many HIV+ people who just accept whatever shoddy treatment they're getting.   If you have a bad doctor or something doesn't seem right get a 2nd opinion or a new doctor.   It's too important to ignore your own health.

    I have to wait out this biopsy, but it should be fine and I'll have the stitches out in a couple weeks.

    Just thought I'd share my story so other people who might be ignoring what seems like a minor issue have it looked at and if caught early it's easily treatable.

    Thanks for your comment!



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  2. trey123 15 years ago

    Very interesting. I had the same thing happen to me with a family doctor, I trusted.  I had a neighbor when I move to Fl tell me to get a spot on my arm looked at and am luck to be here.  Always get a second opinion. Best of luck.

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