Today when I was done bathing ,sis…knocked on the door and told me to get out fast because my little brother needed to bath and she told me not to forget to mopp my water …so I’m an absent minded person and what I did was I took a red clothing from themlaundry basket because I thought it was my dress but it turns out it was sis… she asked me why I would take her clothes and use them to mop the floor and i tried to explain but she wouldn’t listen …so I got dressed and went to explain to her but she wouldn’t believe me and then I went to my room and texted my mom about the matter she told to talk to her normally and just let her get better over it …the rest of the day passd and she didn’t treat me badly but then(I live with my aunt and her family coz my family my mom dad and lol sis live in a different country Tec long story but it’s just abt me finding a better education Tec story for another time)so my aunt got back home and sis …told her her side of the story which had a few exagerrrations mama gave me a chance to speach and well she talked to me and said I should get my absent mindedness out of the way …I don’t know how to deal with my absent mindedness and it makes me feel like I would rather go to heaven coz I don’t know how to deal with it am confused I don’t know who I am am always changing coz we’ll I m not sure who I am I have friends whom I can barely talk to …..I just need so eone who is going to help and give me advice

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  1. syd1583 3 months ago

    Life is unfair and sibling can be stubborn but at the end of the day you still love them and forgive them. Your sister was wrong for not listening to you but that’s how sisters are sometimes. You talked about being confused with life and it’s okay to be confused. Part of you is growing and you are slowly learning about yourself. Yes it’s going to be hard and unbelievably confusing but everyone goes through their own problems. Just take a few breathers and try new things or styles to see through this confusion. I hoped that helped you out and if you need to talk about anything else I can try my best to help

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      n-muri 3 months ago

      Thank you so much i will try to deal with my confusion ,and am glad someone actually replied because it means alot to know someone out there wants to help thank you

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  2. madmax3000 3 months ago

    Everybody makes silly mistakes, its part of being human. Don’t beat yourself up over it. Also, you don’t need to call yourself absent minded, give yourself more credit, your worth more than that! Its okay to make mistakes! Everybody makes mistakes! Your sister does, your aunt does, your mom does, “the president of the united states” surly does, everybody does! I am a very clutsy person, I break things, I stub my toes on chairs ALL THE TIME, I hit my funny bone on EVERYTHING, I knock things over. I also have hearing problems lol, sometimes I mishear or misunderstand people at work and I do really embarrassing things. There have been three very embarrassing incidents that I find funny now looking back at them. I work at a thrift store, I take donations and I help bring furniture to peoples cars. Just yesterday a woman told me she needed help getting a dresser to her car, theres a wall at the back of the store with a dozen dressers lined up all along it and she told me hers was the brown dresser 4 dressers down from the white one. So I counted 1,2,3,4 and I pulled out this really heavy piece of furniture, Took a couple of minutes to slide it out, IT WAS VERY HEAVY, then I lifted it up and tipped it up on its side which took allot of effort so I could get a dolly under it and wheel it out. Just when I’m done and about to start carrying it away the lady tells me, “your just moving that to get it out of the way right?” she points to a skinny, VERY LIGHT, little brown dresser that was sitting right next to the giant heavy one I had just spent a massive amount of effor and timet lifting up and moving out. She says, “Because that ones my dresser”, I didn’t count the dressers right, I went one too far and I looked like a MASSIVE idiot lol. I could have crumpled up like a broken egg shell, felt sorry for myself, felt bad and stupid, but instead I laughed about it. I told her I meant to do that as a joke, then I moved on and got her dresser and loaded it into her truck. She even gave me a 5 dollar tip because she understood and felt bad. The reason she gave me a tip is because silly misunderstandings like this happen to everybody, you arent absent minded. If your absent minded them I’m probably mentally retarded in comparison lol. Don’t let things like this get you down. Laugh about it, and move on. Its really okay to do. I give you permission to do it lol. It sucks when other people misunderstand your intentions, and think you did something on purpose even if its an accident, I’ve done that too, like syd said life can be unfair sometimes. I don’t know what its like to have siblings because I’m an only child, but I know it must be hard. If you still really feel bad about mopping your sisters clothes, you can try apologizing to her? Its never to late to apologize for something you did wrong, and this isn’t even something wrong, it was an honest accident. You could draw her a picture, give her a candy bar or just tell her your sorry. I don’t know how old you are and I’m sorry if that recommendation insulted you in case your older lol. A little gesture of kindness is all you need, you dont even need a gift. And if she still thinks you did it on purpose even after youve apologized, its okay, that means now shes in the wrong and you can just laugh about it and try to move on. If it isnt already funny to you I promise you’ll laugh about 1 month from now. And never, ever be afraid to speak up when you need someone to talk to. Take care of yourself and be happy :}

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      n-muri 3 months ago

      Than, you soo much your story certainly put a smile on my face and yeah I too am like that ,she has forgiven me and we are now talking again and am trying my best to let go so i can be happy

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