Hello , my name is Alyssa 30 years old .
My grandparents raised me .
My mother left with them while she went and did her crack . She came back around 12 and took me back .she was emotionally and verbally abusive. There is do many things she’s done to me .
Not believing me when I told her my sister’s boyfriend molested me or when I told her that her boyfriends dom raped me .
She told me to go outside she’s busy.
She sold my dolls for crack money . My grandma bought them for me .
Put bills in my name without my permission. Acted like me .
Put her hands around my throat cause she thought I yelled at my daughter but I was yelling at her .
Fast forward to 2018 I moved from my apartment to be with my then boyfriend to Kentucky ,she fakes a whole accident to try and get me home to PA.
INVOLVED MY SISTER’ AND NEPHEW TOO. THEY TOLD ME HE WAS SICK .
I don’t know how to forgive her .
We have since went no contact .
My name is Ned. I’m 31. Message me anytime
Dear lyss90,
I am so sorry your life has been so incredibly abusive. You don’t need to forgive your mother. You might forgive her in time but not right now. Right now you can feel. Feel all the emotions that come up. Let them consume you and express those emotions. It has to come out. Your mother did not do her job, she is not allowed to have forgiveness, only if you feel it one day.
Take care