i feel used

i dont know if this is normal

whenever someone needs me i am there for them but it feels like they are never there for me

only when they need me they talk to me

i feel selfish and guilty and an  attention seeker…

even as i write this it feels like a call for attention

i just want someone who will be there for me no questions asked no matter what time it is no matter hat the problem is

is that s hard to ask for? but i guess it is considering people just use me

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  1. lacey7 1 year ago

    23skuhn,

    I understand and have felt that way. I had to learn how to say no and set boundaries.

    You aren’t asking too much!

    As you weed out the the users and toxic people, the rest tend to weed themselves out of your life!

    Then, you can give your wonderful acts of kindness on people who are actually worthy of your time and who will be there for you!

    It shouldn’t be too much to ask but true friends are hard to find! Users are everywhere!

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      23skuhn 1 year ago

      thank you
      im really glad someone saw this and understands how i feel

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    23skuhn 1 year ago

    ok thank you

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  3. anxioususer 1 year ago

    You are not alone in this! Weed out the toxic people who make you feel this way and eventually you will heal and have room for those with whom you have more balanced relationships.

    Now if only I could follow my own advice…

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