First of all – what is that music box all about? It\'s always bugged me a bit, or at least, I\'ve always wondered what you are supposed to put in that box.
More importantly – exam in 2 days. Exam in 38 hours. That realization made it worse. I\'m taking half-pills of xanax to deal with the panic. It feels very similar to last week. I\'m finiding it very difficult to calm down.
I feel upset because this is NOT me. It feels like a mountain of work and I keep feeling like there is no way I can do it. What would my normal self tell me? Let\'s make this an exercise to see if I can use this to help myself.. so what would my "normal" self say?
1. I\'ve done this before, so it\'s not a big deal. Chill.
2. I\'m intelligent and I have the ability to grasp concepts quickly and effortlessly – even if I haven\'t done all the readings.
3. There are shortcuts that I can rely on so that I can summarize all the material I need to know and then hone in on concepts in more depth later.
4. I shouldn\'t blame myself for what I haven\'t done, but focus on what I CAN do from this point forward.
5. I have support! One of my best friends is preparing for the same test and I will see her soon and we will do the work TOGETHER.*
* Sidenote: It\'s kindof funny that when we were preparing for a very similar test two years ago at this time, I was the one telling her that everything woudl be okay. I basically taught her all the material and helped her to prepare. I have always been that person – I think it is really tough for me to be the one requiring help now.
So how did that work? Actually, not bad. Granted, I took half a xanax about 15 minutes before I started writing this (now maybe a half hour has gone by – actually, I\'m not sure, I feel like with stress, my conception of time has gone out the window). But the POINT BEING, the exercise seemed to be somewhat helpful. I need to focus on those points. Reading them over again now just before publishing this seems to have a bit of a calming effect.
One last thing: I really wonder if it\'s obvious that I\'m having anxiety attacks when I\'m in public at the library. I probably look miserable, but I think I do a really good job of covering it up, I think . Sheds a bit of perspective on how many of us might be suffering when no one else knows it – maybe the girl beside me is feeling really anxious as well but I\'ll never know.
Be mindful. You are looking (actually dreading) something in the future. Of course it is going to cause anxiety. I am dealing with the same thing…I have a big meeting at work Friday with the CEO…am I nervous??? Hell yeah, but I know if I continue to dwell on it the next 3 days are going to suck with anxiety. Cherish the moment you are in, it is the only one we have that is guaranteed. Believe me I do not have this down to a science, I just know its what your mindset should be. Good luck!
I read that list over again today. It does have a slight calming effect on me (and this time, I only took the xanax 5 minutes before reading it). I can\'t believe how challenging it is sometimes just to have faith in yourself. People throw that around so easily all the time, but when anxiety comes into the picture, it is a hell of a lot harder to do!
Thanks for the comments blewis and Redrhapsody. I appreciate them as always and I will hopefully get through this and back to studying in a few moments.
Trying not to dwell, just trying to do what I can in the time that I have. *Deep breath*