I have a friend whom I've known for over 20 years now and as long as I've known him, he's always been searching for that perfect guy. He's been in a lot of relationships, none seem to be a long lasting one.

For the past several years, we've stopped verbal communication. We no longer speak over the phone nor go out places. He has his life and I have mine…but we do keep up to date on the wonderful world of Facebook.

His relationship status changes from "single" to "in a relationship" then back to "single" at least four times a year. He's travelled to different states to "meet" a new guy. Next month, he's flying to New York to meet someone he's friended on Facebook.

Although, I think he's nuts, at the same time ~ I admire him. I admire the chances he takes in his search for love. He'll travel to find love. Be itto California, Arizona, other cities whithin Texas, and now New York. He's dating. He's single and he's willing to go anywhere to find what he's yearning for. Am I jelous? Maybe a little bit but not of him finding someone ~of him taking the chances. I thinkmy feelings are more admiration than jelousy.


Do I believe in love? Yes. But I also believe some people are meant to be alone and others are meant to be in love. I'm ok with being alone. Am I lonely? Sometimes but I don't dwell on it. I live one day at a time. I enjoy my surroundings and I enjoy seeing others in love. Would I want to be in love? Sure. Who wouldn't. But, I'm not going to dwell on what I don't have. Rather, I'm going to appreciate what I do have….and it's what everyone has. Life. Cherish it.Live it. Love it.


Thanks for reading my rambling.


Peace all!



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