My sister’s boytoy and her are having an argument. I don’t know what happened, nor do I care to ask.
When she and I were at Walmart, he called her, she said she couldn’t talk now because she was busy, and all I heard from his end was yelling and rambling. He refused to let her get off the phone until he was finished. He does this all the time.
She can’t even fall asleep before he does. If she does, all hell breaks loose and he gets pissed because she “isn’t there for him”.
That doesn’t even make sense.
He made her delete all the guys in her phone, including really close friends.
He didn’t do it with the girls in his phone.
He MADE her stop all contact with her ex.
He is still in contact with his most recent ex. She texts him, calls him, facebooks him, and is at his house all the time.
Just a couple weeks ago, during breakfast, he MADE her skype him just because he didn’t believe she was eating breakfast.
ARE YOU KIDDING ME? WHO LIES ABOUT EATING BREAKFAST AT 9 IN THE MORNING!?
WHY WOULD YOU STAY WITH SOMEONE LIKE THAT?
I shouldn’t even be concerned with this anymore. It’s no longer my problem.
It just bothers me that when she and I argue, we won’t speak for an entire day.
But when they argue, I can 100% guarantee you that that night, they’ll be having sex.
Now I don’t give a damn about her life like that, but she’s literally acting like his whore. Anything to keep him “happy” she’ll do. Even though the very next day, he’ll be pissed all over again..
I need to stop thinking about this. But he’ll be here soon, and I know my anxiety will start all over again.
How do I draw the line between sister and roommate??
It’s so hard to just be done. But I have to just be done because if I don’t, I’ll end up hurting myself again.
I don’t want her as a sister anymore. Sounds stupid, yeah, but I’ve taken way too much from her. It’s literally killing me.
I just want to be done.