Well today I got to hangout with this girl I've been talking to for about a week. My friend and her friend are also talking, so it was the 4 of us. Anyways we went back to her place and just sat around. Everyone took out their phones and got on various social media websites. I didn't because I didn't feel like it. Well when the girl I was with was sitting next to me she tweeted this (I saw this on her twitter later on) "I like a guy with peircings, nice clothes, and wears vans #mytype". Her friend replied with "your jelley" Implying that she was jealous of her because my friend dresses like that. Her next tweet was "Take some notes or something". Possibly inferring to me to dress more like him. But the thing is I am not that type of person. I'm a simple guy, a jeans and t-shirt wearer. I don't like the style most of the guys my age have. I don't like their clothing or their shoes. And I've always had this in the back of my mind that maybe this can be the reason why girls don't find me attractive. I believe that was the reason why the last girl I liked didn't chose me and went off with a guy just like what the girl tweeted. It really gets to me in a very bad way. I mean, I don't have a job so I can't afford the ridiculous amounts these kids pay for clothes and shoes like that. I wear jeans I've had since high school (I graduated in 2010), I wear this jacket I've had since my freshmen year, and I know my shoes are not clean, they are old but they still fit. I don't want to lose another girl just because I don't wear certain clothing. The media has really brain washed these girls and I think it's ridiculous. I just don't know what to do anymore. Girls like these well dress guys (well atleast their definition of what well dress is) and I just can't compete with that.
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I can understand your feelings and I can tell you that if they like you and want you just based on your attire, they are so not worth it. I hope you find a sweet down to earth girl who sees the beauty inside of you and is not concerned with how you dress. The heart inside is what matters more. Many hugs my friend.
Don\'t worry about these (from what it sounds like) petty little girls. Sounds like they are immature. Go for someone that has you level of maturity because they will understand. I have clothes that I wear on a constant basis that are from 4 or five years ago lol. I get my clothes at walmart. I don\'t believe that spending money on expensive clothes is a good investment at all. Heck, the t shirts that I buy are somewhere around five dollars a piece (a dollar more than others because I wear a 3X lol). Do I care about what others think about me? Not at all and you should be the same way! If you run into people that don\'t like you for who you are and what you wear, kick their a**es to the curb!