I am confused about my sexuality and how much I am really attracted to any gender. I came out as bi but now I feel as if I am lesbian. Anyone willing to talk and even confide in another is great!
Sexuality
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Some of my life
MasonElmo, , Anxiety, Depression, LGBT, Depression, Lesbian, Gay, LGBTQ, Questions, Relationships, Therapy, 0
I dont know if anyones going to actually read this but it gets stuff off my chest i guess...
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Gay Revolutionary Redux- Time on my Hands
Mythical, , LGBT, Child, Lesbian, Gay, LGBTQ, Psychosis, Relationships, Sex Therapy, Sleep Disorders, Spirituality, 0
This is a referential work based off the essay by Michael Swift ” Gay Revolutionary”. Love Revolution We shall...
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Transgender Healthcare Rabbit Hole
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Well, I’ve been searching for months for transgender resources. (I live in Wisconsin) And everytime I start to feel...
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About Me (Avery)
AvyontheOutside, , LGBT, Teens, Lesbian, Gay, LGBTQ, 0
Hi, I’m Avery. I’m 14 years old and I use he/they pronouns. For thirteen and a half years, I...
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What am I?
LinkToThePast, , LGBT, Child, Obesity, Relationships, 3
I am a trans woman. Well, it might be a little more nuanced than that but I have scoured...
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Stop
maddieschnieds, , Depression, LGBT, Depression, 2
Stop. Just stop. Stop trying to help, giving me those sad faces. Stop treating me like I am broken,...
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Personalized hell
Poppet, , Anxiety, Depression, LGBT, OCD, Teens, Anxiety, Autism, Psychosis, Relationships, Schizophrenia, 0
I always wonder to myself nowadays: how many years has it been? How long has it been like this?...
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Where’d the Time Go?
PiscesBS, , Anxiety, Depression, LGBT, Anxiety, Lesbian, Gay, LGBTQ, Questions, Relationships, Suicide, 1
I’ve spent a lot of time reflecting on myself the last several years. I was 5 when I first...



I feel the exact same way. I’m just not sure what I am.
Hey, don’t feel so pressured to label yourself. Sometimes you just like what you like, and the label will come to you. When I was in middle school, I considered myself bi because I liked both genders. Then after high school, I thought I was a lesbian because I had only been dating women for a long while. But come to realize that I still found men attractive and even had a couple of crushes on men here and there. What made it hard to know was that I have been in a committed relationship with a woman for almost 6 years now. Just last year, I found out that I like people for their personality. I never felt comfortable saying i was pansexual and even bisexual didn’t feel right. Until I realized that I was pansexual. I realized this when I was 25. So like I said, time will tell. Right now, you don’t necessarily have to label yourself. It may feel like an identity crisis, but trust me, if you just trust your heart and like who you like, eventually, you will find out. Some people don’t even like labels.
My name’s Ashur. Ashur Nora. I’m omniamorous, if that makes you feel any better. I JUST figured out and I’m almost 19. It’s like if you were to put poly and pan in a room and force them to fight. But, then they fight MORE because sometimes the gender CAN affect it, but usually, I focus on personality. Due to trauma, I don’t usually date cisgender men. I didn’t even know pan OR poly were a thing, cuz I was still trying to find out my gender identity for the longest time (masculine genderflux). It’s hard to know what to call one’s sexuality when they’re non-binary. But I have the potential to date practically ANY gender (but I MAY date more than one), so…I wasn’t honestly sure I was GONNA figure it out (same with my gender). Like vee-r said, don’t feel pressure for labels, but -if you do- that’s GREAT! The label’s only really a way to give yourself a sense of belonging.But -honey- no matter what you are, no matter what you stand for, you belong anyways.