I am confused about my sexuality and how much I am really attracted to any gender. I came out as bi but now I feel as if I am lesbian. Anyone willing to talk and even confide in another is great!
Sexuality
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Who am I?
Quirkscrew, , LGBT, Anxiety, Lesbian, Gay, LGBTQ, Religion, 0
I started a journal 3 months ago to explore my sexuality and it really helped. Today I decided to...
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Kermit Face
PiscesBS, , LGBT, Domestic Abuse, 0
So, today officially marks a month. The longer we are away from each other, it seems we fall in...
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This might be long…
hey-its-me, , Anxiety, Depression, LGBT, Teens, Uncategorized, Anxiety, Domestic Abuse, Relationships, Therapist, 0
I think I’ve put this off long enough. Sooo here’s my “story.” I live with an insane, verbally, emotionally,...
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i need validation
falloutchild, , LGBT, Anger, Anxiety, Child, Lesbian, Gay, LGBTQ, Questions, Relationships, 1
so where to start. my birth-name is saoirse but i identify as Seth. im not entirely sure how this...
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A little bit more about me
namenotimportant, , Anxiety, Depression, LGBT, Teens, Addiction, Anxiety, Child, Depression, Eating Disorder, Lesbian, Gay, LGBTQ, Obesity, Parenting, Relationships, Religion, Self Esteem, Sex Therapy, 0
So, A little bit about me. I’m 17, 18 in a few months. I am a female and I...
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Female? Male? What am I?
puraeomallia, , LGBT, Teens, Relationships, 2
Fourth blog, let’s roll! Now this’ll be a little different, since its dealing with my gender identity. Everyone knows...
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bad days, bad nights.
Devvers, , Anxiety, Depression, LGBT, Depression, Lesbian, Gay, LGBTQ, Medication, Suicide, Therapy, 1
Im 13 and I live in Utah. For all that know, Utah is a very religious state. This is...
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My confusion is now my obsession
Jamie1996, , LGBT, Relationships, Sex Therapy, Stress, 2
I have been wearing womens clothes in private since I was a young boy. Over the years it has...


I feel the exact same way. I’m just not sure what I am.
Hey, don’t feel so pressured to label yourself. Sometimes you just like what you like, and the label will come to you. When I was in middle school, I considered myself bi because I liked both genders. Then after high school, I thought I was a lesbian because I had only been dating women for a long while. But come to realize that I still found men attractive and even had a couple of crushes on men here and there. What made it hard to know was that I have been in a committed relationship with a woman for almost 6 years now. Just last year, I found out that I like people for their personality. I never felt comfortable saying i was pansexual and even bisexual didn’t feel right. Until I realized that I was pansexual. I realized this when I was 25. So like I said, time will tell. Right now, you don’t necessarily have to label yourself. It may feel like an identity crisis, but trust me, if you just trust your heart and like who you like, eventually, you will find out. Some people don’t even like labels.
My name’s Ashur. Ashur Nora. I’m omniamorous, if that makes you feel any better. I JUST figured out and I’m almost 19. It’s like if you were to put poly and pan in a room and force them to fight. But, then they fight MORE because sometimes the gender CAN affect it, but usually, I focus on personality. Due to trauma, I don’t usually date cisgender men. I didn’t even know pan OR poly were a thing, cuz I was still trying to find out my gender identity for the longest time (masculine genderflux). It’s hard to know what to call one’s sexuality when they’re non-binary. But I have the potential to date practically ANY gender (but I MAY date more than one), so…I wasn’t honestly sure I was GONNA figure it out (same with my gender). Like vee-r said, don’t feel pressure for labels, but -if you do- that’s GREAT! The label’s only really a way to give yourself a sense of belonging.But -honey- no matter what you are, no matter what you stand for, you belong anyways.