I am confused about my sexuality and how much I am really attracted to any gender. I came out as bi but now I feel as if I am lesbian. Anyone willing to talk and even confide in another is great!
Sexuality
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Fucking Freaking Out!
PiscesBS, , Anxiety, LGBT, Relationships, 1
So, I received some things from my boyfriend and now it’s saying he’s blocked. I’m worried the e-mail might’ve...
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commin out the closet
lilMetalHead, , LGBT, Lesbian, Gay, LGBTQ, 1
eh jus livin my life if u dont accept move out the door. im BISEXUAL……………….*damn i got that out¨…………………………..
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8/22/25
SpyChild, , Anxiety, Depression, LGBT, Lesbian, Gay, LGBTQ, 0
Welp, these past few days since my last blog post have been really fun. I don’t know much to...
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Changing movie scene’s to lesbian\gay scene’s part 1
Cat20468, , LGBT, Anxiety, Lesbian, Gay, LGBTQ, 0
Descendants 2 Space Between Evie and Mal Evie Lyric: what did you have to hide *Gay Panic* Mal Lyric:...
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Making it through without purpose
Dresimpson, , LGBT, Career, 1
Day one of blogging.. It’s late at night and my dysphoria is keeping me awake. I decided to join...
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Be Yourself
EvaL, , LGBT, 0
Today I have been debating on wether or not I should come out to my parents. On one hand...
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Why Me
HardbMe1970, , Addiction, Depression, LGBT, Domestic Abuse, Questions, Relationships, Sex Therapy, Suicide, 2
I am not sure why this happens, all I know is that it happens. It happened to me. I...
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Morning
BrokenDoll17, , Anxiety, Depression, LGBT, Teens, 1
Good morning everyone! It looks like it’s going to be a beautiful day! How is everyone holding up? I...





I feel the exact same way. I’m just not sure what I am.
Hey, don’t feel so pressured to label yourself. Sometimes you just like what you like, and the label will come to you. When I was in middle school, I considered myself bi because I liked both genders. Then after high school, I thought I was a lesbian because I had only been dating women for a long while. But come to realize that I still found men attractive and even had a couple of crushes on men here and there. What made it hard to know was that I have been in a committed relationship with a woman for almost 6 years now. Just last year, I found out that I like people for their personality. I never felt comfortable saying i was pansexual and even bisexual didn’t feel right. Until I realized that I was pansexual. I realized this when I was 25. So like I said, time will tell. Right now, you don’t necessarily have to label yourself. It may feel like an identity crisis, but trust me, if you just trust your heart and like who you like, eventually, you will find out. Some people don’t even like labels.
My name’s Ashur. Ashur Nora. I’m omniamorous, if that makes you feel any better. I JUST figured out and I’m almost 19. It’s like if you were to put poly and pan in a room and force them to fight. But, then they fight MORE because sometimes the gender CAN affect it, but usually, I focus on personality. Due to trauma, I don’t usually date cisgender men. I didn’t even know pan OR poly were a thing, cuz I was still trying to find out my gender identity for the longest time (masculine genderflux). It’s hard to know what to call one’s sexuality when they’re non-binary. But I have the potential to date practically ANY gender (but I MAY date more than one), so…I wasn’t honestly sure I was GONNA figure it out (same with my gender). Like vee-r said, don’t feel pressure for labels, but -if you do- that’s GREAT! The label’s only really a way to give yourself a sense of belonging.But -honey- no matter what you are, no matter what you stand for, you belong anyways.