My best friend since I got sober was a 20 year old kid with 2 years sobriety. He had tons of social phobias, and he was always overanalizing every move anyone made, but he had some time, and cared alot. Then yesterday night I got a call from him telling me to go to hell. He told me I was the most manipulative person he had ever met, that he couldn't beleive the things he's done because of me, and that I should go to hell. What he didn't do was tell me what these things were. He was basing his anger off of shit talking that was happening between two mutual friends of ours, one who I live with. And because my roommate and I are close, he decided I had something to do with the whole thing. He will not answer my calls, he will not tell me why after seven months with out any fighting between him and I, I've become the devil. He will not do anything but lob insults and curse. Part of me wants to give up on him, the addict brain is telling me that if he is going to call me manipulative and destructive then I should show him how bad I can be, and part of me is refusing to let go. I worry about him. He turned twenty one three days ago. He fired his sponsor, he told three of his sober buddies to fuck off, he is out of his after care program, and if This was about something I had done, I think that the least I could get from him was some actual events to back up the things he is saying. I'm scared. I don't know what the next right thing to do is. I'm having trouble pinning my sponsor down to talk. I'm scared that what he thinks about me is true. That I'm so messed up I don't even see it. I feel sick.