So my grandpa is dying and tomorrow I get to go see him but I know that it might be the last time I see him so I’m really scared because I don’t want him to die and I’m scared cause I feel that I haven’t gotten to spend enough time with him especially with quarantine and I want to spend enough time with him but I know that couldn’t be done in a million visits nonetheless one. I’m scared that this will be the last time I see him and I don’t want that to be the case and I don’t know what to do so I’m really freaking out.
Please help if you have any advice cause I visit him in less than 19 hours and I don’t know what to do.
Hey. I am sorry about your grandpa. I know it is sad and scary but think about this.. Your grandpa is probably surrounded by a lot of of scared and sad people. Think about how great he is, what a full beautiful life he had, and give him a respectful and grateful goodbye. I bet that would mean a lot to him.
It is ok to feel whatever you feel.. Sad, cheated. Just remember there are people who were close to him who can tell you more about him. Maybe ask someone to tell you thier favorite story about him. Its one way to keep him with you forever.
Good luck and I hope this helps.
Hi, I’m so sorry that this is happening to you. I understand how it feels to lose a family member. My advice: just spend as much time as possible with him in the days he has left. One day you will reunite with him again. Stay strong and talk to other family members for coping and healing.