…..everything in your life was exactly how you wish it was. It could be living in a different place, married to a different person, or being single, having a different job, changing careers, going to back to school, having more or less children, or having children, moving to a different home etc……..
We can all imagine how life could of turned out differently for the better.
Yet, our lives could of turned out worse. If we let our minds wonder that way, and let us say that we could undo our choices…. If “we pull the string,” we undo all the good memories as well. It just means different challenges and different good memories.
What would your life look like if it had turned out better or how you wanted it turn out in your life plan?
What can you control and make your life as good as it can be with what you have to work with in your current life?
My list is:
be the best wife possible,
if I don’t have anything kind to say about his relatives say nothing (so I say nothing)
be a good listener/ be supportive, cook good meals,
make delicious desserts,
maintain the home, look good and smell lovely,
stay caught up with laundry, take the time go get dressed in regular clothes out of sleep clothes even though I have no where go everyday,
explore and make time to enjoy the hobbies/ interests that bring me joy,
improve my mind daily by gaining knowledge,
treat others well who treat me well, manage dealing with toxic people in way that works for me,
and always do big and little things to make the world a better place everyday etc.
We could all make a list of what we wish was better in lives and we all have challenges.
We all have the same number hours in day.
What are you going to do with the time and opportunity that have right now?