Two of the people that are in my friends list, I know on a more personal basis. I’ve known them both for over a year, and have hung out with them both seperately as well as in a group setting on several occasions. This year, Jon, wanted to date Jennie, but she wasn’t interested and had told him so. Well, Jon couldn’t accept the fact that Jennie didn’t shair the same feelings, or so it seems to be the case from where I sit. Now, I’ve seen Jon bashing and lying about her and that bothers me. I have witnessed several of the things that Jennie has blogged about and that Jon has lied about and caused her to look bad. I care a lot for both of these people and want the bull snickers behind us all. The facts are simple. He wants her, she doesn’t want him. She feels uncomfortable around him and I’ve witnessed as to why and have been told by several people about other problems. Now, this mess is about Jon and Jennie. But if they can’t drop this bs, I’m not going to be able to be friends with them both anymore because I’m starting to feel like I’m being put in the middle. Fact is it’s not really my problem and friends don’t lie about friends to their other frineds or to even strangers because that’s not a friendship to begin with. And the fact is, that if it comes down to me only being able to have one of these two people as a friend, I’d have to pick Jennie because she’s always been honest to me and about me. (Granted, I may hate to hear how she’s worried or concerned, but it’s always been truthful, at least that’s gotten back to me.) And Jennie may have her own issues, just like everyone else, but she’s not overly dramatic and doesn’t twist things and isn’t all about herself. I’m not trying to say that Jon is the complete opposit of these traits, these are just a few of the strong personality traits that I love about Jennie, because she keeps it real. But I don’t want it to get to that point! Both of these people are great people when it comes down to it; as long as they don’t let their emotions run their lives. Jon has people bashing Jennie and taking his side in all of this, when, quite frankly, his side is half truths and lies. Sorry, Jon, but I was there and I am pissed that you’d lie so much about the facts to protect your own image and make yourself look good. I’m just glad that she said no about a relationship with you now because I’ve seen some true colors about you that I’ve never seen until this crap. I’m ticked off and have bottled it up long enough so you’d have some support. One of the things that Jennie said was that you don’t have any real friends anymore. That’s true, except for me and I’ve tried the nice approach but you’re just not getting it and I can’t help someone that doesn’t want the help. I’m sorry; but even I’m at my witts end with you on this. Please don’t make me pick a side and pick a friend! Please help yourself and be honest at least with your shrink! I am really worried about you and these blogs only verify the need of concern. I’ll send you a more privat message with more of my issues about all this so you have some privacy; I just had to say what I did here to let the truth be known…