Everybody makes silly mistakes, its part of being human. Don’t beat yourself up over it. Also, you don’t need to call yourself absent minded, give yourself more credit, your worth more than that! Its okay to make mistakes! Everybody makes mistakes! Your sister does, your aunt does, your mom does, “the president of the united states” surly does, everybody does! I am a very clutsy person, I break things, I stub my toes on chairs ALL THE TIME, I hit my funny bone on EVERYTHING, I knock things over. I also have hearing problems lol, sometimes I mishear or misunderstand people at work and I do really embarrassing things. There have been three very embarrassing incidents that I find funny now looking back at them. I work at a thrift store, I take donations and I help bring furniture to peoples cars. Just yesterday a woman told me she needed help getting a dresser to her car, theres a wall at the back of the store with a dozen dressers lined up all along it and she told me hers was the brown dresser 4 dressers down from the white one. So I counted 1,2,3,4 and I pulled out this really heavy piece of furniture, Took a couple of minutes to slide it out, IT WAS VERY HEAVY, then I lifted it up and tipped it up on its side which took allot of effort so I could get a dolly under it and wheel it out. Just when I’m done and about to start carrying it away the lady tells me, “your just moving that to get it out of the way right?” she points to a skinny, VERY LIGHT, little brown dresser that was sitting right next to the giant heavy one I had just spent a massive amount of effor and timet lifting up and moving out. She says, “Because that ones my dresser”, I didn’t count the dressers right, I went one too far and I looked like a MASSIVE idiot lol. I could have crumpled up like a broken egg shell, felt sorry for myself, felt bad and stupid, but instead I laughed about it. I told her I meant to do that as a joke, then I moved on and got her dresser and loaded it into her truck. She even gave me a 5 dollar tip because she understood and felt bad. The reason she gave me a tip is because silly misunderstandings like this happen to everybody, you arent absent minded. If your absent minded them I’m probably mentally retarded in comparison lol. Don’t let things like this get you down. Laugh about it, and move on. Its really okay to do. I give you permission to do it lol. It sucks when other people misunderstand your intentions, and think you did something on purpose even if its an accident, I’ve done that too, like syd said life can be unfair sometimes. I don’t know what its like to have siblings because I’m an only child, but I know it must be hard. If you still really feel bad about mopping your sisters clothes, you can try apologizing to her? Its never to late to apologize for something you did wrong, and this isn’t even something wrong, it was an honest accident. You could draw her a picture, give her a candy bar or just tell her your sorry. I don’t know how old you are and I’m sorry if that recommendation insulted you in case your older lol. A little gesture of kindness is all you need, you dont even need a gift. And if she still thinks you did it on purpose even after youve apologized, its okay, that means now shes in the wrong and you can just laugh about it and try to move on. If it isnt already funny to you I promise you’ll laugh about 1 month from now. And never, ever be afraid to speak up when you need someone to talk to. Take care of yourself and be happy :}