- Today I was joking with another transmasc friend about transmasc’s always dress like middle school boys. He said we dress like middle school boys because we never got to be middle school boys.
He was kidding, obviously, but now I can’t stop thinking about that. I will never be the same as cis boys. Even if I take T even if I get surgery we will always be separate. I won’t get to be a highschool boy. When I kiss other boys even if they know to them I won’t be another boy. I will never be like the other boys
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Let me start by saying my understanding of gender issues is borderlands nonexistent. To the point I don’t know what a transmasc IS but scrolling through all these blogs and not seeing a single reply bothers me.
To quote a better man than I “Gotta be you, only one you in the world”. Really think about that, in the billions of people in this world and the odds of your parents meeting, let alone THEIR parents ect ect it somehow all lead to you in this moment now. So don’t worry about what you’ll never be, haven’t been, will become, or what other people will see you as at all those times. Reguardless of all of that you’re you and what you are will continue to change. Just gotta ride that wave wherever it takes you.