So, I am in love with a girl at work. She however told me I am too old and that she already has a boyfriend. So I decided to ignore her in order to forget and move on. Well it has been 8 months and I still cant stop thinking of her. Moreover, she thinks I hate her and now she ignores me. Lately I have been thinking of her more often and I find myself in pain of the thought of “the what if”, what if it could have worked out. These reoccouring thoughts create anxiety and great sadness, and I really would like some help.