Oh my gosh. My irritability level is at an all time high this week. I feel like even the littlest things are going to set me off into a rage. It's bad–I mean I can feel it in my chest–just like anxiety. Does anyone else experience this? Especially after days of experiencing high anxiety/ocd obsessions? I feel like a complete and total bitch to everyone and I hate being like this! I feel like I'm either a sobbing mess who needs constant comfort when my anxiety/OCD are high and when I'm feeling "better" I am SUPER irritable. I know that better person is deep down there somewhere, but lately I haven't been able to find her…

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  1. DS 11 years ago

    I have to deal with  unexpected and sometimes seemingly irrational anger as well. In my  case, this has the potential to become extraordinarily problematic. To give you an idea, I'm 6'6 , I weigh about 270lbs and if you look at my picture, which is fairly recent, you can see that I'm not obese..I'm just a really big guy. So I have to really be careful to be even tempered, even if  I'm fuming inside, because I'll scare the hell out of most people if I lose it. Consequently, I need to diligently maintain control of my anger.

    My advice for when you're feeling cranky is to exercise . Do something healthy to work off that extra venom. I take walks and sometime lift weights. Lately I've come to love isometrics, because they cost nothing and you can do them anywhere.

    Another technique is the classic "write a letter filled with everything negative you want to say to someone or about something" . You just absolutely unload allof your baggge in the letter and rant to your hearts content, being as foul and angry as you want..and then you don't send it,  you destroy it. I do that  and  it really helps.

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  2. telknit23 11 years ago

    I often find irritability goes along with depression and/or frustration (inability to accomplish things).  This has been a real week for it.   It's been a while since it got to the point of rage, but then I don't listen to the news much any more (seriously).  Driving came close a few times this week.  Wish I had some better advice, but  avoiding stressors when possible is all I've got.

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  3. steelcitygirl 11 years ago

    Thank y'all for your advice/comments. This is one part of the "disease" that I want to change most–it affects so many aspects of my life. I don't want to pull excuses as to why I'm doing what I'm doing or how I'm feeling. I want to change. I don't want to feel that way when driving (I commonly do!) or when I'm out with my husband. The past 6 months have been a lot for me and I know I'm a strong person but I hate being like this. I think exercise may be key. I honestly think I would enjoy running off the stress or taking another class (zumba maybe—I enjoy the Wii version I have!) Also, I think writing down my thoughts–even as a letter would be beneficial as well. Sometimes all I want to do is let it out–that way it doesn't have to hurt anyone. Thanks again all for taking the time to help me out 🙂

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  4. steelcitygirl 11 years ago

    I really need to get back to a regular exercise schedule–I have to admit I felt a lot better when I was exercising every day. I have always wanted to work out in the morning and have made so many excuses as to why I can't. I really need to make a push and get to bed early and try a morning workout. Glad to hear it helps you! 🙂

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