(2:45:58 AM) aluminium: because of your misuse of msn, i can never know if you are ignoring this or away, because youve mad eit clear that ignoring msn messages for you is a common procat:ice

(3:21:42 AM) cat: what the hell? When have I made that clear?

(3:22:05 AM) aluminium: by always being on "

busy"

(3:22:15 AM) aluminium: and talking while busy

(3:22:38 AM) cat: I can be busy and talking. I flit back and forth while still talking, that\'s why I have it on busy

(3:22:58 AM) aluminium: noo you never take it off

(3:23:18 AM) cat: I\'m usually pacing around often when I\'m on

(3:23:19 AM) aluminium: we boooooth knoooow

(3:23:27 AM) aluminium: you dont take it off busy

(3:23:42 AM) aluminium: its a quick switch, you just dont do it

(3:23:47 AM) aluminium: lots of people dont

(3:23:52 AM) aluminium: its bad

(3:24:00 AM) cat: you don\'t knooooow. I occasionally take it off. Most of the time I am either walking somewhere or likely to be called to do something. So I keep it on

(3:24:50 AM) aluminium: every time i sit down i push "available"

(3:25:06 AM) aluminium: your still busy by the way

(3:25:16 AM) cat: Well I was away

(3:25:24 AM) cat: good god, it\'s not a big deal

(3:25:31 AM) aluminium: i think your avaoiding ppl on your list thats why

(3:25:57 AM) aluminium: its a huge deal, because it confuses the whole process

(3:26:13 AM) cat: heh, i\'m not

(3:26:21 AM) aluminium: then put it on available

(3:27:49 AM) cat: I\'m purposely not going to put it on available right now

(3:28:11 AM) aluminium: 😐

(3:28:42 AM) aluminium: 😐

(3:28:50 AM) cat: <:o)

(3:29:03 AM) aluminium: your avoiding ppl on your list

(3:29:33 AM) cat: I\'m actually not. If people on my list want to talk to me, they just talk

(3:30:07 AM) aluminium: yeah right, when theres no chance youll answer back, and might be miles away

(3:30:25 AM) aluminium: myou want to make it hard on everyone who talks to you

(3:30:28 AM) aluminium: ?

(3:30:31 AM) aluminium: thats what your doing

(3:30:33 AM) aluminium: !

(3:30:41 AM) aluminium: its frustrating

(3:30:53 AM) aluminium: your discouraging communicat:ion

(3:31:04 AM) cat: no i\'m not. People freely message me. The only person who seems to find it frustrating and complains about it is you

(3:31:32 AM) aluminium: the only one who says anything you mean

(3:32:27 AM) cat: I honestly don\'t think anyone else is bothereds

(3:32:31 AM) cat: bothered*

(3:32:58 AM) aluminium: just tell me why you wont tell people your here, im serious, i cant stand it

(3:33:39 AM) aluminium: i have no idea if youll answer or away ever

(3:34:07 AM) aluminium: its really annoying so just tell me

(3:34:56 AM) cat: if I have it on away i\'m probably away. If I have it on busy i\'m flitting about

(3:35:28 AM) aluminium: ive only seen it on busy, and you were flitting about for an HOUR

(3:35:35 AM) aluminium: thats not flitting ok

(3:35:35 AM) cat: I don\'t have any reason to avoid people, I have it on busy because I might not respond immediately and people might get pissed off

(3:35:55 AM) cat: I had it on away when you sent me a message

(3:36:04 AM) aluminium: why cant you push the button that your there, and push it again that your not i really really dont get it

(3:36:24 AM) aluminium: you dont use available

(3:36:58 AM) cat: I do sometimes. And when I\'m not there I change it to away, like I did no so long since

(3:37:16 AM) aluminium: AND change it to available when your back which you didnt

(3:37:21 AM) aluminium: i mean are oyu at work????

(3:38:10 AM) cat: I don\'t have a job.

(3:38:24 AM) aluminium: i mean whatever your not gonna do anything about it its just , SUPREMELY annoying to alot of people not just me

(3:39:39 AM) aluminium: if i was doing something supremely annoying id like to be told

(3:40:00 AM) cat: I\'m not doing anything about it now simply because you\'re so insistent that I change it

(3:40:01 AM) cat: okay

(3:40:14 AM) cat: it is very annoying telling me I am very annoying

(3:40:56 AM) aluminium: i didnt say that, i said doing that is annoying no matter who you are, and now that you know this fact, and your going to keep doing it, and doint have a reason is very fishy

(3:42:06 AM) aluminium: and you werent going to do anything about it before either so

(3:42:54 AM) cat: you read too much into things

(3:42:58 AM) cat: i\'m not avoiding anyone

(3:43:22 AM) aluminium: and thats why you refuse to turn on a green light

(3:44:18 AM) aluminium: "cat:: I\'m purposely not going to put it on available right now" theres other reasons, whatever they are.

(3:45:01 AM) cat: no, I don\'t jesus christ. Get wanna be Jessica Fletcher over here

(3:45:37 AM) aluminium: what do you mean jesus christ, as if im being absurd

(3:45:50 AM) cat: brb

(3:46:14 AM) aluminium: i know somethings up with you and being available

(3:46:31 AM) aluminium: and you didnt change your staus when you left

(3:46:44 AM) aluminium: its rude

(3:47:17 AM) aluminium: thats really it. its just rude and not respectful to your riends

(3:49:08 AM) aluminium: people only do it so they can choose who they talk to, and say they arent there, and ignore other people

(3:49:17 AM) aluminium: without stressing statuses

(3:53:41 AM) cat: for gods sake I don\'t do that! If people want to message me, they message me no matter what my status. And I had to let my dogs out. I think it would be more \'rude\' and awful of me to let them piss in the house

(3:54:44 AM) aluminium: you dont see how REFUSING to use proper status is really strange and confusing me?

(3:56:44 AM) aluminium: do you have a reason at all???

(3:57:21 AM) aluminium: are you ocd?????

(3:59:50 AM) cat: why would that equal ocd?

(3:59:51 AM) aluminium: you dont even care that people dont know if theyll get an answer or if your gone? you just say theyll message if they do, no matter the status? because thats not the case at all.

(3:59:57 AM) aluminium: because its bizzare

(4:00:06 AM) cat: I don\'t want to upset you at all

(4:00:10 AM) aluminium: that you will not can not will not even think about putting up your available

(4:00:10 AM) cat: they do message me

(4:00:17 AM) cat: how do you think I ever manage to talk to someone

(4:00:35 AM) cat: you might not be clear on what I\'m doing, though I have explained, but you still messaged me

(4:00:56 AM) aluminium: taking out a dog so?

(4:01:20 AM) aluminium: are you reading these or do you think im wrong or somthing

(4:02:40 AM) cat: I thought you were annoyed because I didn\'t reply quickly. Yes I am reading these.

(4:02:50 AM) aluminium: [3:46 AM] aluminium:: its rude

(4:03:13 AM) aluminium: its like saying youll mett someone, and then never saying the time

(4:04:24 AM) aluminium: especially if you use msn a lot, like, why the hell would you not care

(4:06:36 AM) cat: I care that it upsets you but why do you care so much? It\'s not a big deal, you know I\'m here. I explained why I use it and YOU ignored that

(4:06:46 AM) aluminium: no you didnt

(4:07:20 AM) cat: I\'m usually back and forth. If I change it all the time it would change from available to away at least every minute

(4:07:37 AM) aluminium: your just saying that!

(4:07:47 AM) aluminium: your always away and busy

(4:07:48 AM) cat: I\'m not just saying that!

(4:07:58 AM) aluminium: ive had you on my list i fuckign see your icon

(4:08:18 AM) aluminium: i have never messaged you while available, your never available, but you are

(4:08:25 AM) aluminium: your here, but refuse to put available

(4:08:30 AM) aluminium: THATS what upsets me

(4:09:17 AM) aluminium: is that you are either lying, or being deceptive, or just totally uncaring

(4:09:34 AM) cat: I have it on busy because I\'m generally flitting about. Sometimes i\'m at the comp others not. It would be a pain in the arse flicking back and forth all the time if all i\'m doing is pacing a bit or something similar

***** says:

ahh right. heh, might be an idea for me to have it on that most of the time

(4:09:40 AM) cat: message to someone else

(4:10:07 AM) aluminium: what?

(4:10:20 AM) cat: someone else I am talking to. Message to them, and from them

(4:10:33 AM) cat: I\'m not lying, it\'s irritating me that you think I am

(4:10:38 AM) aluminium: thats a joke they made

(4:11:02 AM) aluminium: they arent really going to put up busy all the time because that would be fucking confusing

(4:11:26 AM) cat: that\'s not a joke, whether they do it or not. I asked them if they got pissed off with it, and they don\'t

(4:11:36 AM) cat: it\'s only you having such a goddamn fit over nothing

(4:11:58 AM) aluminium: okay im really serious, just tell me why you are feircly defending putting up available

(4:12:16 AM) aluminium: its driving me fucking crazy now because because its not making nay sense

(4:12:37 AM) aluminium: its really REALLY doesnt make sense

(4:12:42 AM) aluminium: you WONT do it

(4:12:45 AM) cat: if you laid off, I might of put it up. Considering you are now dictating to me that I should do, I really really do not want to

(4:12:46 AM) aluminium: not a preference

(4:12:47 AM) aluminium: you WONT

(4:13:16 AM) aluminium: oh my god YOU WERE SAYING YOU WONT EVER DO IT and thats whats fucking crazy

(4:13:44 AM) aluminium: JUST TELL ME WHY

(4:14:00 AM) cat: I never said I won\'t ever do it, I said I\'m not doing it now. I said that to you nearly as soon as we started talking

(4:14:06 AM) aluminium: okay why

(4:14:08 AM) cat: and I do occasionally have it on

(4:14:11 AM) aluminium: no you dont

(4:14:15 AM) cat: yes I do

(4:14:18 AM) aluminium: okay why

(4:14:23 AM) aluminium: why

(4:14:24 AM) aluminium: why

(4:14:24 AM) aluminium: why

(4:14:44 AM) cat: because you are dictating I should, and you are making a huge deal out of nothing

(4:15:05 AM) aluminium: so you want to punish me bvy mentally confusing me further?

(4:15:59 AM) aluminium: im begining to think you really are just kind of uncaring of others generally and thats it

(4:17:01 AM) aluminium: just how you react to this, and also the thing in general

(4:17:14 AM) cat: I\'m the uncaring one? You immediately start attacking me over something so petty and proceed to insult me through out. In fact, most of the time you talk to me, you manage to insult me in some shape or form

(4:17:55 AM) aluminium: yeah you seem totally uncaring, and i want attacking i can read all my messages and your replies and dont see attacks because they are arguments

(4:18:07 AM) aluminium: i told you why its important and you still say its petty

(4:18:25 AM) aluminium: (see, uncaring :P)

(4:18:37 AM) aluminium: its important to me, and lots of people, yet you still say petty

(4:19:13 AM) aluminium: you just DONT CARE to the point where you will put lost of effort into refusing to give a shit

(4:19:38 AM) aluminium: or see my point

(4:19:52 AM) cat: I\'m not uncaring in the slightest, I give a shit that it bothers you so much and that you feel the need to insult me, yeah

(4:20:18 AM) aluminium: copy a message that was insulting and ill tell you how you misread it becaus ei didnt insult you !

(4:20:53 AM) aluminium: an argument isnt an insult by the way

(4:21:03 AM) aluminium: your supposed ot read them

(4:22:19 AM) cat: I am reading them, you see things in your own little way, conviced that must be how they are. Where I\'m from, calling someone uncaring is an insult, to start with

(4:22:25 AM) aluminium: i never dictated either ! i was saying why its bad

(4:22:37 AM) aluminium: i said exactly why i think that

(4:22:55 AM) aluminium: so you disregarded everythign i said then?

(4:23:03 AM) aluminium: because i see thigns in my own little way

(4:23:09 AM) aluminium: and am convinced

(4:23:20 AM) aluminium: thats how they must be, so you disregarded all my writing

(4:23:28 AM) aluminium: thanks

(4:24:18 AM) cat: I don\'t at all. What I mean it that your interpretation is not always correct, as you have just proved with that last post.

(4:24:33 AM) aluminium: my last post was copying your post

(4:24:58 AM) aluminium: and your not answering any of my points,

(4:25:05 AM) aluminium: duh

(4:25:23 AM) aluminium: its seems you are disregarding them!

(4:27:14 AM) aluminium: whatever talk to your friends and tell them a weirdo is flipping over nothing and that its sad

(4:27:18 AM) aluminium: when its something

(4:27:38 AM) aluminium: and you dont even want to talk about and stonewalled me

(4:27:44 AM) cat: I don\'t think you\'re a weirdo. What do you want me to answer?

(4:28:02 AM) aluminium: that its rude????

(4:28:05 AM) aluminium: answer that

(4:29:47 AM) cat: that is your opinion though. I don\'t think it is rude, neither do a lot of other people so it seems

(4:32:47 AM) aluminium: yourn a lot of other people are probably people who know you and dont care or from a mental health site and can never say anything bad ever because of their complexes

(4:33:53 AM) aluminium: your being a fucking asshole by your actions even if you think im being a terrible asshole because im trying to make you see something, you think im fucking deluded instead of talking about it

(4:34:43 AM) aluminium: you talk nice and that doesnt make what your saying not fuckin insulting

(4:37:34 AM) cat: I still don\'t see how it\'s an insult. It\'s just a status. That\'s all it is. I could appear offline and still be talking to you

(4:37:46 AM) cat: and those are assumptions

(4:38:28 AM) aluminium: if you didnt disregard my talking as coming from someone who shouldn\'t be listened to, you can just look at my messages, and ignore in a nice way, i mean those are your views on me, i wouldnt kep talking if you werent fucking effecting me negatively, and your not saying anything, you dont care in your actions, your doing other things.

(4:39:47 AM) aluminium: i mean now im just fucking really insulted that im being totally disregarded and you think i was just insulting instead of making a point

(4:40:49 AM) aluminium: you dont respond to anything im writing

(4:40:53 AM) aluminium: fuck me

(4:42:51 AM) cat: I have been responding to what you\'ve been writing to me. I have never thought you were someone to not listen to, clearly I have been listening or I wouldn\'t keep responding

(4:44:49 AM) aluminium: you didnt respond to points i made! >:(

(4:45:03 AM) aluminium: fucking dont, theres like dozens

(4:47:17 AM) aluminium: are you flitting???

(4:47:21 AM) aluminium: are you talking to your friends???

(4:47:25 AM) aluminium: hello???

(4:49:23 AM) cat: I had to go and talk to my mum and then got something to eat. This is why I have my status as busy

(4:49:57 AM) aluminium: dude, YOU ALWAYS HAVE YOUR STATUS ON BUSY

(4:50:04 AM) aluminium: HOW SHOULD I KNOW

(4:50:39 AM) aluminium: and it takes you five minutes to respond to things now, where did you go, jupiter???

(4:51:06 AM) aluminium: thats what busy is for, WHEN YOUR FUCKING BUSY

(4:51:57 AM) aluminium: you said when your away is when your away, you were just BUSY

(4:52:04 AM) aluminium: you said thats when one can reach you

(4:53:16 AM) aluminium: but its just a tiny insignicant thign that doesnt effect anybody right so who cares, ill wait here for ten minutes literally staring at white screen for a response

(4:53:32 AM) aluminium: because you didnt put away up

(4:55:05 AM) cat: why does it matter so much for you? It\'s nearly 10am here, people are wanting me for things

(4:55:41 AM) aluminium: you dont give a fucking shit do you, you cant even read what i just said, i just explained why so many times