I’ve been trying to calm down and make sense of what happened yesterday after a meeting with my son’s teacher and principal. They decided that it “would be best” to put my son in pre-school so he has a better chance in succeeding in kindergarden next year. WHAT?! So basically they have kicked him out for being a bad kid who is immature and not at the level of the other kids. I am very disgusted with this bitch of a teacher he has. One of the office ladies told me about a month ago that she is a real bitch, not in those words but yeah. I had taken my son to do his pre-K testing and she told me this as we walked near her classroom. I was like ok why is she telling me this. SO i was then praying he didn’t get this teacher and of course he did. When we went to orientation days before school started right away u could tell she was gonna be a total wench. She was yelling at kids and making snotty remarks to ppl. I was like oh great here we go.

WHen my son started school I knew it would take a lil bit for him to get used the school routine. They started last Wed. and by Friday his teacher said that he would not sit still and was being defiant with her and saying he didn’t want to do what she asked him to do. Well I don’t know if this is true. The sitting still part I believe but the being defiant and telling her straight out he’s not gonna do what she says. Idk. THe fact of the matter is that it is very apparent that she just doesn’t want to deal with my son period. Before our meeting on Friday I got there a lil late as to wait till all the parents had picked their kids up and she would be able to talk to me instead of brushing me off like she had for the last 2 days.

Well when i got there my son and another boy were still waiting. The boy was there and so was his older sister. I was talking to here and the boy had a whislte which she snatched from his mouth and took away. The sister was like that’s his whistle. THe teacher was like I know if he blows it again i will take it and not give it back. WHen the boys father arrived he asked how he had behaved that day. The teacher told the father that he had grabbed onto a girls legs and tripped and “scared her very badly”. THe father glared at his son. He said “we have the same problem with her” meaning his sister. No I ask you, why r these kids allowed to stay in school when they are actually causing harm to other kids and my son who is hurting no one (well except for the fact that he may be interrupting the learning process)is kicked out and sent to pre-school?! It just doesn’t make sense to me.

I am totally disappointed, defeated, drained and have all kinds of mixed emotions about this whole thing. MY husband has said that it would be a good idea for him to do so. I guess i agree to a certain extent but am just so pissed off about the way they went about this. I asked them if there was a child in 3, 4 or 5 th grade with these problems would they send them away.They said yes. I was like really. “They would be held back in the same grade” they said. BUt after asking 3 times they did not answer me about sending them to another school. SO that is really pissing me off that they are just throwing my son out and dismissing him. I know that my son is not an angel by any means. But he is a very very smart boy. They said it doesn’t matter how smart he is if he can’t behave it doesn’t matter. Good motivation I see here. My son is very aware and now that he has gotten used to the idea for the last 2 yrs (in preparation for school) that this is his school… I think he is going to take any transition pretty hard. Especially when he is in pre-school with children that are much younger than him. Oh and the reason he didn’t attend pre-school was for the same thing his behavior. He was just not ready emotionally. FOr kindergarden he was. Or at least it seemed like he was. So idk. I’m lost and feel like shit. I have failed my son once again and my husband is of no help or supportive. I feel so alone. 🙁 Iam going to the school district on Monday and give them a piece of my mind and I think I will end up putting my son in private school or do home school. Not before I get them to evaluate my son and find out if he has ADHD. When i tried to get my eldest son evaluated by his doctor she said that it’s the schools responsibility to do that. Which they finally did and my eldest son does have it. I have and feeling that my lil one has it too. I have high hopes for my kids… but are slowly getting shot down by the system.