Hello I am new here and I thought I should start by introducing myself.

My name is Vi , I am 28 and a mother of 4. I was raped at age 15 by an older neighborhood boy, I was also touched by my fathers best friend at the same age. I was a teenage cutter, married my high school sweetheart at age 19 and was with him for 9 years then Divorced last July. My 3 out of 4 children live with him, I left him in 2015 because of mental and sexual abuse, in 2014 he was drugging me with my sleep medicine prescribed to me for insomnia and began raping me in my sleep because I was refusing to have sex with him, It took so long to leave him out of fear of him taking my children away from me. Because I never told anyone I was never able to see justice for what he did to me, and he was able to follow through with his threats of taking my kids. He was able to get primary custody of the 3 children last august with the help of his family and a very expensive lawyer.

Everyday I struggle with the thought that I never should have left because, then I’d still get to be with my kids everyday instead I get to have them once a month…..because I am in another state. I have suffered so much over the past year and nothing has gone right for me in the slightest.

I am in a new relationship and have a baby with him, I am now in therapy and see a psychiatrist. I need support more then ever and sadly friends and family don’t know what to say or how to help so everyone just avoids me. I feel extremely lonely and desperate for ways to cope with all that I am bottling up.

I am an open book and would gladly speak to anyone willing.

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  1. bodierker 3 years ago

    My god, you have had such a hard way to go. You must have incredible inner strength. I am hopeful that you will be able to have a relationship with your first 3 children. They will want to know you.

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      luvvi 3 years ago

      I do…and I talk to them almost every day and skype and Try my best to make the most of my time when they are here with me.

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  2. austinjwilson 3 years ago

    Why don’t you hire a lawyer? The lawyer does not only work on cases but also provides counseling. If you want to get legal advice for your business or family issue, the lawyer will show you the pros and cons of your action. A lawyer can be your guardian, agent and legal advisor as well. The legal advisers like 36avocats.com/annuaire/bechara-tarabay assist the clients by getting the required evidence to support the case. In case of legal obligation, the job of a lawyer is to offer legal support.

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      luvvi 3 years ago

      Believe it or not i HAD one. Paid him 2,000 for him to show up to court 1 time and did nothing he promised he could accomplish. I am out of funds!

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