Do you ever feel like you build walls around yourself so much that you don’t know who you are anymore?

Sometimes I just feel so lost, like who am I supposed to be, am I where I need to be?

I don’t like having this guard up all the time, I want to be able to just let go and be me. Not be this ‘anxious girl’.

My self confidence is so low, like ridiculously low. I see all these girls on social media that are so confident and so comfortable in their own skin and I envy them. I know I shouldn’t compare myself but I wish I could be more like them.

Does any one have any tips? How can I become more confident with who I am?