Hi, the name I go by on here is Rory bc I don’t like my real name and yeah, I’m 14. My family is very Christian, and like they don’t really support LGBTQ+ people. So about a month ago or maybe 2 months ago, I had a “friend” over their name is now Alex. So we hung out in my room and like yeah all the stuff u would do with a friend over technically. We talked a lot, watched TV, ate food, messed around, my sister and her bf were on the found and my sister was watching us it was weird af. So fast forward to later when we get in the car to go drop Alex off at home. I got in the car behind the driver seat, Alex sat in the middle of the back seat right by me. My dad looking at us quite a few time the whole way there. He put Christian music on the whole ride and like Alex doesn’t like that so like they asked to turn it down so my dad did. We dropped Alex off and started driving home, it’s about a 20-25 minute drive to their house. So about half way home my dad turn off the music and gave me a scary look, and asked “ so what are you?” I didn’t reply because yeah. So he rephrased it and said “ what is with you two?, why do u look at each other as if u r dating?, (at the time alex went by Hannah and used she and her pronouns) isn’t Hannah a girl what’s going on tell me now or I’ll stop the car here” so I looked at him awkwardly and like said “ well dad, um I’m not straight” and my dads eyes went a bit big. “ well what are you then, you know we don’t support LGBTQ+ people I. Our house bc they arnt right and r going to hell” he said to me so since I was still trying to figure myself out the first thing that cam out was “ I’m pansexual” he looked at me confused “ what the heck is that?” So I explained to him what it meant he sighed and said , “ we do not support that stuff no dating girls or others in this household, I’ll try to forget u said that stuff, but what r you and Hannah?” So I said we r just really good friends”. My dad didn’t say a thing after that.