Not sure what to do. My bf of 4 years has been acting strange for weeks now and when I confront him on it he gives me really lame excuses like he is worried about paying the house off and other lame ones. He hasn't touched me in a week we haven't had sex in 3 months and he works over night so he has been waiting for me to get out of bed in the morning so he can go to sleep. He doesn't have a car or license and I have to take him to work at night and pick him up in the early morning at 6:30am. I have a car that has bad brakes and can't afford to fix them right now and he acts like he doesn't care about my son or I. As long as he gets to work and home it seems to be ok but he never calls to find out if we made it home safetly or not. He doesn't give me money for gas or car repairs but yet i'm suppose to give him 140.00 lot rent every month? Doesn't seem or sound fair to me. Plus he told me about 2 weeks ago that he only has sex when he wants it. I told him yesterday that my son and I will be looking for a place to live because this is all to hard on myself and my son. I love the bf to death i don't even know if i should be calling him that or not right now he never talks to me or tells me whats going on with him he tells me that he doesn't think that he needs to explain himself to me. This is really going to hurt but what else can i do? Please anyone with any advice please help.