So theres this new guy i have been talking to lately and oh meh gah hes a sweetheart. I was talking to him on the way up camping about how i would love for him to come camping with us one time. But boyyyy was i wrongg. When i got up there things were ok the next days were bad and im embarassed of my family i dont even want him to be around them…. There wasnt one day where my mom was truly sober all day. My family argued over everything. Nothing truly happened like i wanted. No wished… I also am witnessing my little cousin (the only person in my family who i can talk to about anything.) turn into someone just like me. It makes me just cry over the fact that she is turning out like me. That is not what i want for her. I have no idea how to stop it though… I hate watching my aunt smack her and call her fat. You should never f'in call your child fat, what is wrong with you! she cannot even stand to be around her immediate family anymore, which is how i started out. I just dont know what to do… I told her to check this site out in case she ever needed any help, because thats the only think can think of at this moment. My aunt is unfair to her. She lets my even bigger cousin than my little cousin and she makes kierst drink diet pop and sam can just drink whatever she wants. My other cousin basically screamed at my aunt to the point where i could hear her from pretty far away. Yet i did not see my aunt do nothing. If that was kierst she would have been smacked so hard. My aunt also lets her older sisters tell her what to do. like when we were packing they said that their mom needed help. Im sure if she needed help she would ask. Shes not shy about that. I just have no idea what to do to keep her from becoming like me…

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  1. ancientgeekcrone 10 years ago

    Sounds like you and your cousin have had a tough time of it.  You will not be forever children.  When you are on your own, you will be in a position to changes things.  Too often young people make the hole they are in by turning to bf and sex  for love and acceptance.  But pregnancy in such situations only make it worse. So learn as much as you can., so when you come of age you can change your circumstances. Encourage your cousin to do the same thing.  You may just have to mark time until you can have a better influence on your life.  In the meantime, if you can find a supportive mentor. who will be there for the rough times, that would be helpful too.  So of course is this site.  Good luck to both of you.

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