So I'm watching Secret Life of an American Teenager and someone starts knocking on the door.
I was hopeing he would just go away if no one answered it but Cirena got up to answer it. Of course it was Derick… He said "I tried calling a bunch of times but no one answered." WELL DUH if I wanted to talk I would have answered the phone. I kept my cool until he pointed out my iHome. "Oh what's that? When did you get that?" Who cares… Why do you need to know. Then he says "Yeah I'm getting one at Meijers for $77.00. And it's this big." So what. I didn't say anything I was I thinking… Just said oh cool.
Anyway he asked what we did over the weekend. Cirena said we shopped around for a computer but didn't find one that we liked. So we put most of the money back in the bank. Until I get my income taxes back. Then asks how much I was getting back. Who cares… Why do you need to know… Is it not obvious I'm secretive and don't like answering your stupid questions… I think he's too intrusive and taxing on my energy reserve.
Then he starts in on how he's a computer whiz. which made me mad because he was talking and it made no sense because he didn't know what he was talking about. He doesn't even have a computer and he types with one finger when I've seen him use one… SHUT UP. I don't care what you know and don't know. Oh wait you know everything about everything. And I hate it when he says "Well Cirena or Well Rochelle – You know" BLAH BLAH BLAH Well no shit you can really store files on an external hard drive… LIKE OMG I thought it was just for looks!
Then he says yeah I'm not going to let people push me around anymore. Because Cirena said something about being sued for medical bills. And he laughed… HELLO you retard why are you happy she got sued? Then he's like did you try to fight them? Well no she went to the ER, she didn't pay on time, and now they sued her. So instead of paying court costs too she settled it out of court. Well I wouldn't let people push me around like that. I wouldn't pay them either. Yeah that sounds real responsible Derick. I'm sooo proud of you.
Anyway, he kept talking and I said okay we've done enough talking. Can we be quiet now so I finish watching my show? Then he was like WELL GEEZZZ in a snoty voice and started laughing. It's like look I didn't anwer the phone take a hint. I think he knows I don't like him much and he comes around to piss me off. Just because in the past he said he liked to piss people off. Or maybe he's just stupid…
Anyway, Cirena said it was time for him to leave and he just kept talking. He talks 24/7. He always has to have something to talk about. Even when we watch a movie, it's yap yap yap. SHUT UP and bursh you hair and stop being a dork.
Don't you have windows you need to go peek into…
These are boundary issues. It iis up to you to draw the boundaries. It is NOT up to the other people to figure out where your boundaries are/ You couldtell Derick, you weren't available to talk to him on the phone. This is why he didn't get you. You could have also said you would return the calls when it is convenient for you to do so. When he was asking question, you could say that you felt like you were being interrogated. That he was to rest assured, that when and if you felt like it . you would share information and that he was not to interrigate you. I noticed in one of your other blogs that Cirena did not honor you wishes when you said you were tired. Only you can draw your boundaries.
Yeah I'm working on that… How do you do that??? So far with him it doesn't matter. I've tried in the past to tell him I didn't feel like being around anyone and he's got defensive. To the point of scary.
Once he started talking about work and I told him I didn't want to talk about work. And he got mad at me and asked me what my problem was. The thing is if it were anyone I would have listened but he talks about females there like they are shit, that what he does is a man's job, and how someday he's going to be supervisor then OWN the company. Because he's a buiness man. He's a damn janitor just like me.
He thinks he's superior than everyone and also talks about how genius he is, when really he's not and just needs to shut up every now and then and stop acting like he knows stuff he doesn't know.
I drew out a blue print for an idea for a Sentronic Guitar and he saw it. The next day he comes over and starts talking about how he has this GREAT idea for shoes called Snikee. And he kept emphasizing the word GREAT and how much Nike was going to LOVE his idea. It was like what… I wanted to laugh but I held back. He tries to copy me… It's annoying.
He farts really loud in public and then laughs about it. He has no manners. It's like thanks buddy for all the attention you just drew onto us. I've asked him not to do that and if he has to fart to go somewhere not around me. Then he said "Well huh huh it's funny though." I told him it's not funny, it's gross, and I don't want to smell it while I am eatting. He acts like Beavis and Butthead to sum it up.