ok  so, my 2 year old daughter  is going on a trip with her grandma and grandpa. she will be gone wed til saterday. she has to goon a airplane. im FREAKING OUT. i know it will be good for her and she will have fun. and i know she will be safe with my inlaws, but seeing how i dont think eather of them know how to fix a plane if its going down, im really nervious about the airplane part. am i being crazy, is this my ocd worry, well id like to think it is, and im worrying over nothing, but i think its a normal worry. thairfore i cant convince myself not to freak out.  so from thie time she leavs tothe time i get the call that she is on the ground safe, im going to be loosing what little of my mind i have left. im shaking right nowt hinking about it. this is the hardest thing iv ever done. and im sure alot of parents feel the same way. i just want to keep her next to me and safe forever and i know i cant do that. i cant contorlle the world. and even if i could keep her by me forever it would most likly do more harm than good. when my 4 year old cosine died in the front yard last year i sopose it really messed with me. like we can never keep them safe. but it also let me know that we have to live life while we have it. somthing could happen to any of us at any time, so we just have to try to make the best of things while were here. im so scared but i know she need to go and have fun. and i just hope that god will keep her safe and bring her home to me.