oh boy, I really don’t know what to write! life is sucking, i am barely there. I am crying buckets over my dog who died in December, and I like this because it is the only thing that makes me feel like I’m a good person. He drowned, and he wasn’t supposed to drown. He was only 8, and I should have been there. The thing is, I was hoping and kind of praying (not formally) that something would happen to him. I was tired of him, tired of his personality, and I was moving out of the state so I didn’t want to give my parents the responsibility of taking care of this dog. So, I cry and cry and cray, go see his grave (twice ) and cry some more…. I can’t take this. Again, like I said, I have no regrets how this all played out, but I am crying. When we found him, and we were thinking of how to revive him, all the while I was calm and thinking "good….let him die." That worries me, but i *do* cry about it; that makes me a good person. I just wanted another dog. I was tired of him; I wanted a new dog. Bad person? I know.
But he’s laying in the ground right now, and all cause I couldn’t be there for him in his last moments *sob*. I cannot take this; too hard.
Other than that, my name is Elly, and I am sober. jk.
So, my story is, I’ve had no friends. All my life and nobody wanted to be close with me. Oh, i’ve had my shots, but no one sticked around long enough. I had some I clung on to for dear life, but that was just survival. We didn’t enjoy each other. So, I am here, 28 years old, female, and I’ve barely had a great life. The problem now, is that, after high school, I got into self-help books and figured out all the things that were wrong about me, and went about fixing those i.e. hiding them, suppressing them.
Now here I am 10 years later, and no one really knows the real me, *I* don’t even know the real me who knows. But no one cares.
I kinda wish someone would REALLY care, and not just act like it. Maybe Jesus?! Maybe you?! Who?
Hi Sarah,
THanks so much for your words of encouragement and advice, it means a lot. First, I”m sorry to hear you”re "ready to give in and say goodbye". THat worries me; can you talk about it?
I don”t know how you”re going to receive this comment; I”ll just post a hello on your message list =)
elly.