My husband is a good man. A good man who is still figuring life out. He is really spoilt as he has very rich parents who provided him with everything he asked for this has led to him growing up and getting on his own two feet difficult for him. I grew up very differently i had an abuse father who walked out of my life at age 8 I had to grow up really fast. life wasnt easy I had to figure things out and I did thanks to my amazing mum and family. So when i got married I was an accomplished adult who in my opinion had lived and was ready to settle down. The adjustment into my husband and his families life has been really difficult for me. They are extremely traditional and feel women shouldnt work and the husband should be the sole provider. i find this so difficult as i have worked so hard to get to where i am and i am not ready to give it up. I feel like i can never make anyone happy anymore im dissapointing everyone. I wish i knew what to do, how to achieve a good balance in my life. i feel no matter what I do i will never please my in laws to them i am always wrong and trying to ruin their lives, my mother in law always speaks about how she is finding it so hard to adjust since i got married. I find that so offensive what could i have done that makes her view me as such a hindrance.
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Need help but turned away pt 1
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If this is going to be a multi series blog. So it’s not a long read This will be...
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Again, i’m not sure this will remain here or be deleted, one more time…. Seems like between “technology” and...
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A unique case.
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It has been five years. Five years of marriage. Five years trying to heal from four years of two...
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Log: 001. “So…”
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So… I live with my grandparents due to the fact I wished to go to school in the same...
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Is the first time after so many years when finally I have the courage to share my story and...
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cannot keep standing still
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Lingering in a land of uncertainty, Questioning even the slightest of movements. Continue to worry about what other people...