Center your energy with the determination to accomplish the task.
By changing your chaos to calm, you put all parties on notice that you are serious. The new mix will affect those around you. Those who would wish to partner with you in negativity will have to find someone else to exchange with.
What do you do when you feel that you don't belong anywhere anymore and that nothing in this life matters, even your friends and family, and the only thing you seem to love is your pets?
The sense of belonging in the liner stems from the spiritual oneness of the Universe. Often those who you participate with are acting out dramas that you may have already finished. In those cases, it is necessary to separate from those that no longer resonate with your energy.
Many times those estranged will "catch up" with each other later in the linear or between lives.