It bothers me when my husband reminds me that he wants me to lose my weight. (10 Ibs)
Why can’t he work on himself? When he is perfect he can talk!
It was very challenging dealing with daughter’s situation. I did so much to help her out. Now, I am the bad guy? I remind her of the situation? It was a heartbreaking situation and it broke my heart as well. I did everything to help!
She acts resentful toward me that she experienced it.
(I am empathetic and feel others pain like is my own.)
It is challenging because once upon a time the person that she was going to marry was like a son to me. I love him like he was my own adult child.
He made choices. Daughter asked me if she should still marry him. I told her that it was her life and her choice.
Then, I was supportive of her choice to not marry him and help tie up the loose ends It was heartbreaking
My daughter is pleasant and happy around her dad and brothers. However, she acts annoyed that I exist and I can’t do anything right.
Earlier, she announced that she was going to the store and I wasn’t invited to go with her. I didn’t even ask!
She is in therapy and does a zoom abuse survivor support group.
I backed her up when she wanted to end the relationship and call off the wedding
I didn’t mistreat or abuse her. He did!
He became emotionally abusive me as well! I thought he cared about me like a mom. His mom hasn’t been there for him and I was for five years. I love him like he was one of my sons. I don’t know why he became cruel and scary.
It is cruel that she is taking it out on me as well. I was supportive and there for her 100 percent!
Thanks for listening! I appreciate it! You made a difference “listening.”