I have been working at this oil change shop for about two months now, when I first started there the manager was a total Jerk, to the hilt. Degrading and all. Well after a few weeks that passed, and then the asst. mgr started in on me. Then one day as we are waiting for cars to come, the asst. manager and I started talking about music, and he suggests that we all go out for drinks one night. He then asks for my number, not wanting to be rude i ablige. Big mistake. That night he texts me and says he tried sending a picture of himself to me. CAN YOU SAY CREEPY?!??!?!? Oh no……… Thats not the end of it…. By far. I go to work the next day and totally avoid him. I think he noticed this and started being a bigger ass than before. He also has these crazy mood swings. I am positive he does meth, all the signs and sympotms. Any who, he will go from yelling and being condescending to trying to flirt with me and make jokes. I don't have the kind of personallity to where I can just let that shit go, i will be angry about it for a few hours. Long story short I talked to my manager about his mood swings and how it affects quite a few of us at the shop (leaving out the whole creepy hitting on me thing) and he says well ill keep an eye on it and shruggs it off. So I decide to take matters into my own hands and confront the assistant manager about the way he talks to me (like I am an idiot to surpas all idiots) and told him I am not ok with it. He gets in my face and starts yellin at me……….. So what do I do? I walk off. Frankly, I think like a guy. When that shit happens either I say somthing or I hit you in the face. Knowing that neither would be condusive to keeping my job, I choose to walk away. He then yells at me again saying I have no respect for authority and sends me home. The next day he avoids me, and today he is back to hitting on me. I have no clue what to do, I don't know if I should say something to my boss or just try to ignore it. My boyfriend (who is in the military wants to dent his face, and while that sounds good to me, It won't help…..WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!? I don't want to be the " Girl who can't deal" or starts shit, or looses my job over this. It sucks being a girl in a male dominated career.