I’m so pissed and hurt right now, Im beyond myself! My husband has really done it now. My oldest son ( his step-son ) is sick and needs to see a doctor. …. When I approached my husband about this he actually got mad over it!! … I can’t imagine what’s going on in his head. …. My son needs to see a doc he is running a fever and has white patches on his tonsils and my husband is making it difficult to go, he wanted to fight about it. …. We’ve been having trouble for awhile now I’ve even thought that he is fooling around on me. …. he cusses me and the kids all the time he hollers and raises his voice over every little thing. …. Hell he even gets mad when I try to clean the house. …I mean EVERYTHING has to be an arguement with him. … I’m fair …. if I think that maybe I my have misunderstood something he has said I at least give him the chance to change it before it get pissed about it, I even go so far as to tell him that what he said has pissed me off and if he didn’t mean for it to be that way then say something before I walk away from him pissed. He remains silent then later gets pissed off at me because I’m mad at him over the things he said to me. I know it’s crazy …. I’ve had enough of it and I just don’t know what move I should make next. …. It appears to me that maybe he doesn’t care that much for me or my children.. and if that’s the case maybe I should leave him. This is so messed up and so am I? … I just don’t know what to think about this or what to do? Btw, my son is going to the doc, I made him an appointment for my son. Fuck, my husband and how he feels about it. MY SON WILL GET THE MEDICAL ATTENTION THAT HE DESERVES AND NEEDS, DESPITE WHAT THE JERK HAS TO SAY ABOUT IT!!!! Sorry for the rude language!