I’m so pissed and hurt right now, Im beyond myself! My husband has really done it now. My oldest son ( his step-son ) is sick and needs to see a doctor. …. When I approached my husband about this he actually got mad over it!! … I can’t imagine what’s going on in his head. …. My son needs to see a doc he is running a fever and has white patches on his tonsils and my husband is making it difficult to go, he wanted to fight about it. …. We’ve been having trouble for awhile now I’ve even thought that he is fooling around on me. …. he cusses me and the kids all the time he hollers and raises his voice over every little thing. …. Hell he even gets mad when I try to clean the house. …I mean EVERYTHING has to be an arguement with him. … I’m fair …. if I think that maybe I my have misunderstood something he has said I at least give him the chance to change it before it get pissed about it, I even go so far as to tell him that what he said has pissed me off and if he didn’t mean for it to be that way then say something before I walk away from him pissed. He remains silent then later gets pissed off at me because I’m mad at him over the things he said to me. I know it’s crazy …. I’ve had enough of it and I just don’t know what move I should make next. …. It appears to me that maybe he doesn’t care that much for me or my children.. and if that’s the case maybe I should leave him. This is so messed up and so am I? … I just don’t know what to think about this or what to do? Btw, my son is going to the doc, I made him an appointment for my son. Fuck, my husband and how he feels about it. MY SON WILL GET THE MEDICAL ATTENTION THAT HE DESERVES AND NEEDS, DESPITE WHAT THE JERK HAS TO SAY ABOUT IT!!!! Sorry for the rude language!

4 Comments
  1. Brandnewmessiah 14 years ago

    Yes, your children come 1st. Your husband should want your son to get the attention he needs also. As for a divorce I will just say don’t jump to any quick decisions. If you love him and think he loves you then exhaust all efforts to communicate and make your marriage work. Suggest counsleing and things and if he doesn’t agree to go then you have an answer that means he is not willing or wanting to make it work. Just be sure that you know you have fought for your marriage and even if it doesn’t work you can say you gave it your best. All my best wishes to you!

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  2. Reyesik 14 years ago

    I’m glad you decided to take your son to the doctor for its very important that he gets treated. I’m sorry that your husband has had a bad attitude with you. I really hope things get better for you. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND GOING STRONG. FOR YOU CAN GET THROUGH ANYTHING!

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  3. IceJudge 14 years ago

    hmm. does he have any mental problems? They say Depression comes out in males as agressiveness sometimes. and …from what i read taht dude sounds psycho no offense lol. I hope your son gets better and your Husband cools down alot.

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  4. brokenfairy_38 14 years ago

    Thanks to all of you who commented on my blog. I did get my son to the doc and it turned out as I expected, he has strep-throat. He has his meds and will be on his way to getting better now. … I really didn’t expect to get any comments on this, but I am so glad that all of you are ready to show me the support that I need so badly. … It feels … sooooooooo … good to know someone out there really cares. You guys are … GREAT … Thanks! Kim

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