I always wondered where I went wrong with men. I know I’m very young and barely legal lol 🙂 But i have had a few experiences. Number one always the boys that i care for but i am not lusting after always ask me out and treat me like a princess but theres something not right no attraction!. Or I date a Psychopath who hit me in a busy shopping centre (he was arrested) I still get nasty messages off him to this day! I met various boys but didnt "like" the good ones. I always fawned after the idiots. I read a book a few nights ago called He’s Just Not That Into You and i realized it was totally true, men aren’t exotic creatures we always think they send out mixed messages when infact they just get mixed up in our womanly brains. When he doesn’t call you or text you back within half an hour without good reason HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!
Yes It hurts its happened to me many times but i realized i have been wasting my time on guys that are never going to treat me right. Like I had a boyfriend who pressured me to sleep with him the night after we did it he didnt call me or text me for days usually he was so kind but then after alot of nagging he finally told me he thought it best we dont speak anymore after that i cried my poor little heart out but then i realized he was just using me and was a prick. He didn’t like me at all which is ok because one day i will meet someone who does.
Okay heres the rules ladysss and fellas i guess
1. If he doesn’t call you or text when he says he will or you have to chase him Hes just not that into you
2. If he doesn’t like the word BOYFRIEND Hes just not that into you
3. If he suddendly doesn’t want sex with you without a medical reason hes just not that into you. Men usually want to rip our clothes off all the time
4. If he puts you down or makes you feel shitty Hes just not that into you
5. If you have been dating for quite awhile and the next step is things like moving in, marriage and babies are putting him off Hes just not that into you!
6. If he has cheated on you and tries to blame it on you hes just not that into you!
7. If hes disappeared on you hes just not that into in you
8. If he has a fear of intimacy (without good cause) hes just not that into you!
9. If he does not respect your feelings or opinions he is just not that into you.
10. If your having breakup sex dont! Hes just not that into you anymore!
and finally dont let him use you thanks!