I said good bye to my on and off boyfriend of 3 years today.
I learned from this relationship to be strong and stand my ground and not be talked into dating someone I really don’t want to date or let someone move in who I really don’t want to have live with me. He was fun and a good friend and in need of a place to live and in need of a friend after his wife told him to leave.
He was living in an expensive apartment alone in a city he hated. I am a pleaser and he is a charmer and pushes and pushes until he gets what he wants. He did me huge favours and how could I say no? Anyway you learn and you learn. With every good bye you learn.